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#1 Jun 29 - 5PM
coffeeaddict66
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Ice Cream

The narc texted me today to give a long apology. It went on an on. He continued on to tell me my insistance on NC an a divorce had cause him such incredible pain and that this intense pain had made him see the error of his ways and he was going to seek long term counselling to change.

He finally said that he was glad that I was not being hurt by him anymore and had found happiness on my own without him. He also stated that life will continue and he will move on to his "next flavor of ice cream". "Its like when you go to the ice cream store and they don't have the one you want you get something else instead". REALLY????? Did he actually say that???? What was I EVER thinking??

Waking up and smelling the coffee!!

Jun 30 - 8AM
Hunter
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Coffee has less calories

Coffee has less calories too! Ten bucks says in a week if you did not respond he will rage! Delete,Delete,Delete Have an Ideal Day Hunter
Jun 30 - 7AM
janine
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Ice cream for Narc

Does anyone have a recipe for ice cream with vinegar and soda to blow out his guts?
Jun 30 - 8AM (Reply to #10)
Hunter
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Triple EX lax in his

Triple EX lax in his scrambled eggs!
Jun 30 - 7AM
naive46
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My N used the term "cheesecake" ???

Love the ice cream analogy (for it's humor effect only). That reminded me when mine said, in the heat of the moment, that I was like "cheesecake". You know, it's really enjoyable when you have it but you wouldn't want it all the time or it wouldn't be a treat. ???
Jun 29 - 11PM
empath
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If coffeeaddicts N were an ice cream...

He'd be Ben & Jerry's "Chunky Monkey"...he's bananas AND nuts! What an ass. Really. Ignore his sarcastic "wit". Please don't waste your time writing back to the N. Thank you for sharing such an insightful post into the mind of an N. We are just ice cream flavors to them...first choice, second choice, etc. What a revelation. I believe he was absolutely serious when he said that to you. Hope you believe it too and stay NC! (((hugs)))
Jun 29 - 10PM
Susan32
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He was THAT fat...

The ex-Psych prof cheated on me with Little Debbie. It showed on his waistline. The ex-P didn't compare people to ice cream flavors, but that's the way he acted. My classmates would mock how he was getting fat from too much Dunkin' Donuts* and Fluffer Nutters.** The way the ex-P dealt with the push/pull dynamic was to be health-conscious&hitting the tennis court my sophomore year, then stuffing his face my junior year because he wasn't getting his way my junior year. *The ex-P was from Massachusetts. Dunkin' Donuts is based out of Quincy. My sister in Boston literally lives across the street from one. **The Fluffer Nutter is the official sandwich of Massachusetts. It's made from peanut butter&marshmallow fluff.
Jun 29 - 9PM
Jannie In the Sun
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Waking Up

I'm sorry, but did you leave out the part where he talked about YOUR needs or asked how YOU feel? Did he just describe a woman as a flavor? Maybe he will get 'brain freeze' from his next dish. Stay strong and be good to YOU!
Jun 29 - 8PM
charms0917
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He was probably very pleased

He was probably very pleased with himself. He probably congratulated himself on how clever he was. He is a toolbox. Find comfort in the fact that you realize that life is more than finding your 'next flavor of ice cream'. And pity the man who sets his standards that high (Sorry, I can't convey the level of sarcasm I feel in this message) Be happy :)
Jun 29 - 8PM
Sparrow
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He must have thought he was

He must have thought he was at Baskin Robbins! Asshole!
Jun 29 - 6PM
ruby01 (not verified)
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coffeeaddict66,

He's Tuttie Fruttie and NUTS!! See Ya LOSER N
Jun 29 - 5PM
sara-smile
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Ice Cream

OMG what an idiot! That is just horrible but so typical NARC! That is pretty much what we are to them.......flavor of the day, month, or minute! Glad you are waking up and smelling the coffee! I'm sure this email only helped with that! Sara