"snuggling" with my 11 year old
"snuggling" with my 11 year old
ok, I have a question, i am prepping to leave, but since things have gotten rough, i sleep on the couch. and he has been having out 11 year old sleep with him. The first few times i didnt think anything of it, i just slept in her bed, then my mom said soemthing that my daughter was sleeping with him EVERY nite, i was like no? i dont think so? so i told her not to anymore, and he was angry. you dont want me close to her? and of course shes mad at me...she doesnt understand...but he does. i came in one evening and she was in there and i said, ok, get out. she was upset and he says what is your problem? i said it is inappropriate. he quickly tells her to get out.
So then a week or so later, i go to check on the kids before i leave every morning,and she is gone. in bed with him. he happens to get up and i aske when did she get in bed with you? he said oh is she in there? but heres the kicker, that evening, i ask her, when did you sneak into bed with daddy last nite? and she said oh he told me to come in there after you tucked me in...
i told my counselor about this and she is alarmed. does not like this, i dont know what to do....is this common? and he all but ignores the 8 year old. (both girls)
i am asking now becuase although i have repeatedly asked them to stop this-she wasnt in bed this morning...
i know i need to drop the D and get it over with...and i have the lawyer, saving the money, being careful, ect. but this kicks it up a notch doesnt it?
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nolongercontrolled
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nolongercontrolled
That is not right at all.
re: struggling..
Agree
Doesn't your therapist tell
get out!