JUST GET OVER IT.....
JUST GET OVER IT.....
YEPPERRRRRRRRRSSSS!!!!!!!!!
That is what a woman my 17 year daughter looked up to told her about the Narc. She wanted my daughters help with something and could not understand when my daughter declined due to the NARC'S INVOLVEMENT.
Just get over it - wow! My daughters older sister kindly confronted the woman and suggested that perhaps offering that advice to a teen when you do not know the circumstances was not wise. This was not a normal teen romance and a normal teen breakup....the 19 year old textbook Narc is on his 5th virgin.
This reminds me of the saying "walk a mile in my shoes" before you can know what it is I am going through. It has taken months of therapy and books and prayers to get my daughter onto "the Path Forward". With one one careless sentence I could see the pain of HIS LIES AND MANIPULATIONS come flooding through.
I believe it was Michele who brought to my attentions how the victim can become re-victimized when associating with the wrong person.
Thank you for listening ladies. It really is important to surround yourself with people who "get it"! You have been through too much to be re-victimized by people who want you to JUST GET OVER IT.....
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Susan 32
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