Time is at hand

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#1 Jun 14 - 11AM
whskywmn5
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Time is at hand

Ok ladies, the time is about here for me to make my move....i got a job, my vehicle is in shop this evening getting all new brakes and rotors on it for trip home. I finally told my parents a small portion of what is going on here....but will never tell them the whole extent of the last 6 years of my life. Some things are best left unspoken esp..to aging parents....so they put some money in my account back home in the states...now I only have to wait for the opportunity to present itself for me to make my escape from this man. Please say a few prayers for me the next couple days, as im sure this is going to be a very hard journey im undertaking.....but well worth it in the long run.

Jun 14 - 2PM
nancyh
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Whsky, my thoughts and

Whsky, my thoughts and prayers are with you. Stay safe!

Nan

Jun 14 - 1PM
Used
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GOOD LUCK AND GOD SPEED AND

GOOD LUCK AND GOD SPEED AND DON'T LOOK BACKXXX
Jun 15 - 5AM (Reply to #13)
whskywmn5
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True no looking back

Only looking toward the future, and what ever it may hold, I know it cant be any worse than I have endured the last 6 years of my life.
Jun 14 - 1PM
wacaet
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I will be thinking of you and

I will be thinking of you and wishing you safe travels
Jun 15 - 5AM (Reply to #11)
whskywmn5
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Thank you

If all goes according to plans I will leave sometime in the morning.....and hopefully be back safe and sound at my parents sometime Friday night.
Jun 14 - 12PM
Lobo555
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Good for you!

Prayers and cyber hugs! Stay strong and keep doing what's best for you! Ahhhh, a fresh narc-free start. How wonderful. :)
Jun 15 - 5AM (Reply to #9)
whskywmn5
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Thanks for the prayers

Yes it will be wonderful not constantly being belittled made to feel like im nothing in his eyes.
Jun 14 - 12PM
Hunter
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Be Strong! Hunter

Be Strong! Hunter
Jun 14 - 12PM (Reply to #7)
whskywmn5
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Thank you

Im trying, but i must say the guilt is eating away at the inside of me, sneaking off like im planning on doing....yet I also know its the only way I can do it. Thats the difference between me and him, i feel things deeply and have a conscience he doesnt.
Jun 14 - 11AM
spinning
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wsky, I'm so glad you

posted. I have wondered and worried about you and am proud of you for making a plan and going with it. Please inform your parents or a trusted friend of your exact travel route and plans when you make your move. I hope you have a cell phone and keep it with you at all times. You have been very smart and yes, it will be a difficult journey but one that you can do and one that will be so worth it as you say. I will be praying for you, sending good vibes, and positive energy. Please let us know how you are doing. Stay strong and stay safe. Love and hugs from (not) spinning. NO LONGER AN OPTION. I REFUSE ALL CHAOS.

spinning

Jun 14 - 11AM (Reply to #2)
whskywmn5
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Thanks

I will tell them the morning before i leave, the only cell phone i have is his, and i will be leaving it here when i leave.....im going to time it so ill go right after he leaves for work one morning, so will give me plenty of time to cross the border hopefully without to much problems. Ill be several states away before he realizes what happened.
Jun 14 - 12PM (Reply to #3)
Lobo555
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Can you get a travel phone?

One of those ones where you get 30 prepaid minutes in case you need to call someone? I don't think you should be completely without a phone.
Jun 15 - 5AM (Reply to #4)
whskywmn5
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Ill look into seeing about

Ill look into seeing about the price of one, before I leave, thanks for the tip....will be along trip almost 1300 miles
Jun 15 - 5AM (Reply to #5)
Lobo555
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I don't think they're very

I don't think they're very expensive at all. And 1300 is a long way! You'll feel better having it with you. Hugs and safe travels! Keep us posted on your journey.