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#1 Oct 1 - 1PM
Anonymous (not verified)
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Important - All Members

It has come to our attention that the STBXH of one of our beloved members, has GOTTEN ON TO THESE BOARDS and read her every word. Abuse only thrives in silence and there's no reason to be silent here.

He has threatened her that he is going to sue her for Defamation after copying all her posts.

Sir, you are full of shit and guess what? What you have done is illegal. Defamation is not someone's private thoughts and feelings. And you have threatened to sue this site. Your threats scare no one. Bring it on because frankly, Lisa and I could use the money and you obviously have no boundaries or respect for the women here and could use some jail time.

Second - thank you so much for admitting to all of us that you have done this. You see, I had my ex do this to me and it's ILLEGAL. You also have just handed everyone on this site a reason to file a lawsuit against you for finding this out and reading ALL our private opinions thoughts about those who have abused us.

Let us edify you:
California Penal Code 502.

Even though they are a spouse, they still have the expectation of privacy on some things. E-mail being one of those. Copy her posts or anyone else's - and the penalties go up.

Every state has a Penal Code for this. So every one of our U.S. members has recourse against you. Damages and prison time.

There is mandatory prison time and some hefty fees attached.

I know your name and where you live and I have a call into a friend at the FBI CyberCrimes unit right now in your state because what you are threatening is a FEDERAL CRIME. And if you bully and threaten your wife further - I will make it my personal business to see that she gets all the help she needs.

How about being polite to your wife and giving her some money to support the children and doing her the favor of a polite divorce so she and you can move on with your lives.

Oct 3 - 8AM
Carolyn
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nicely put. Menacing and

nicely put. Menacing and threatening women is what these losers do. Maybe he is lonely and we could all e-mail him? I don't live in the US but know a lot of people who do and would love to e-mail him. Some women police, a woman judge, some investigators, some district attorneys. this sounds like a dead beat dad if he isn't supporting his children what about the DA's office in his county? Legal aide can help Leah with her ex stalking her on this site, and the welfare dept. might be helpful with job training, food stamps, and they also go after dead beat dads in most states. If he can't support his own children, his wife has thrown him out and now he is stalking her on this site it sounds like he also needs a psych exam and she might talk to the mental health people in her county. I mentioned ACLU they are always interesting to talk to.
Oct 2 - 9PM
Carolyn
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When people are threatened

When people are threatened with slander they should know what slander is. It is a deliberate lie to hurt the business or reputation of someone. For instance a reataurant is opened near by another restaurant so the first restaurant owner tells people that there has been a lot of food poisoning at the neighboring restaurnt. that causes customers not to go to the restaurant in question. If it can be proven that the first party lied intentionally in front of 3 or more people that person is in legal trouble. You have to prove that the person knew the story was false. this website is terrific and I think ACLU would be a good legal resource to defend freedom of speech.
Oct 1 - 10PM
cupcake (not verified)
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With are with you

We are all here for you. All of us. This worthless man is nothing and has no right to treat you the way he did. You deserve better and you are so strong to be able pull away from him. It's the best when you realize they have no means to control you or manipulate your anymore. This man is so laughable. Laugh at him!! He is nothing!! Weak and pathetic, doesn't deserve any thoughts. From what I am reading he sounds like mine - about 6 years old. Throwing tantrums and raging. Remember - they cannot love like we can, no empathy, no love, no emotion. Only childish rage. It's funny! I am so happy you are one of the normal people of the world who can love and laugh and feel happiness. And you care about people and have a heart and a soul to enjoy your life. Be happy beautiful ! We are here for you.
Oct 2 - 10PM (Reply to #15)
tina
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our friend

WE ARE ALL BEHIND YOU! DO NOT LEAVE US! WE NEED YOU AS MUCH AS YOU NEED US. ONLY TOGETHER CAN WE GET THROUGH THIS! HE HAS NOT WON AND NEVER WILL.
Oct 1 - 9PM
NanC (not verified)
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Hang In there, Girl!

We are here for you & know that u are in our prayers. Please be strong & don't let that sick bastard intimidate you! Keep in touch so we know you're okay. Barbara & Lisa, I feel sorry for any man that trys to push you two around...they'll have a rude awaking!!!
Oct 1 - 10PM
Barbara (not verified)
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D.A.

BTW - I do know your name "D.A." she didn't tell me - you see I pay ATTENTION to who comes & goes here. And not only that, I believe she has a no contact order of some sort on you so you have violated that by violating her privacy on this board. Additionally - threatening her for sharing her thoughts and all the pain you caused her? Is also a violation of her First Amendment rights; as well as a violation of those same rights of everyone here. What's the matter? Hard to tell the new G.F. what a great guy you are and how "psycho and crazy" your wife and all your exes are? Are you dragging the children around her to prove what a great Dad you are? You realize that having the new G.F. around the children is INAPPROPRIATE? That you aren't even divorced yet! And MySpace and Facebook are going to hear all about your bullying too. As well as your internet provider. You could start by: 1. Giving your wife money on a regular basis to help out her and the kids. (considering you just dumped her & the kids the same way you did the house - the latter of which we know you left like a complete PIGSTY. Someone else always cleaning up your crap aren't they?) 2. No more threats or bullying or giving her money on condition of XYZ 3. Immediate counseling for yourself. LONG TERM counseling. This place can help: http://www.bhs-inc.org/index.html 4. Tell the GF you'll call her again when the divorce is done. 5. Go to court and file for divorce and be fair and POLITE to your WIFE. That's for starters. I don't play - and neither does Lisa. Your threats & bullying are burying no one but YOU, D.A.!! ~~~~~~~~~~~~ "Pathologicals only discard the best, most precious of gems of people... not the worst. They despise the strong, principled, decent & honest. Their discarding of you is then their highest commendation of your worth!" - A.V.
Oct 1 - 5PM
grossot
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You have every right to

You have every right to be here. He no longer scares you. He is threatening you because he hates it that you have so many people who care about you and NO ONE CARES ABOUT HIM! He's an effing psycho! He has no soul. You do and he's jealous of you. Defamation of character? He's a TARD! He doesn't deserve how generous you've been to him. By generous I mean letting him keep his nutsac. ~Give a Narc an inch and they become the ruler~ nolongercontrolled
Oct 1 - 5PM (Reply to #11)
Lisa E. Scott
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Grossot!

You crack me up, Grossot! Generous, indeed. :) xoxo, L
Oct 1 - 4PM
Lisa E. Scott
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D.A.

Just know you have been warned.
Oct 1 - 2PM
dolce (not verified)
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I stand with you,

I stand with you, Leah! ~Free to Be~
Oct 1 - 3PM (Reply to #2)
James (not verified)
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Full Support

You have my full support and tell a**hole to see my blog so I can track him too!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I can use the money as well!!! Acts of an cowards are like the old saying! A brave man dies but once!! A coward dies a thousand times!! So come on "coward" and bring it on!!! http://james-personalitydisorder.blogspot.com/
Oct 1 - 3PM (Reply to #3)
quietude (not verified)
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our friend

No worries, empty threats ~ the first thing I thought of was, WHAT 'CHARACTER'?? dirtbag - Kiss my booty YOU NASTY FREAK!!!
Oct 1 - 4PM (Reply to #4)
nhtmf
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Hey I say

I say bring it on. If he wants to hold posts against you or share any of our stories then let him. We wouldn't be here in the first place if these guys weren't scum. I could use the bucks too. Tell him thanks for me, I'll be right behind you with hand held out. If he does use these posts doesn't the dummy realize he will be exposing his own bad behavior? Hang in, they always try some way to get to you....anything will do. Hope you're reading this as well sicko !!!!(that to your XN,of course)
Oct 1 - 5PM (Reply to #5)
GhostBuster
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Bring it on, a-wipe!

What a complete idiot. Wants to out himself publicly by claiming to be an un-named a-hole mentioned on a support forum. Crawl back under your anonymous rock, fool. Hang in there, Leah.
Oct 1 - 7PM (Reply to #6)
malloryforest
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our friend

Totally with you. And for any other STBXs spooning around,let this be a warning to all of you.
Oct 1 - 10PM (Reply to #7)
thisisnotfun
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Leah

Behind you .... As far as your ex.. You are scum of the earth and I hope you rot in hell......
Oct 2 - 7PM (Reply to #8)
Barbara (not verified)
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hellooooo scumbag

you just proved everything said about you was true asshat! and you're an ugly bully who only cares about his dick, apparently. Take a look at the great man members: http://www.myspace.com/mechanic76 (report him to: abuse@myspace.com) http://www.facebook.com/people/Dale-Allen/1837698084 (report him to: abuse@facebook.com) This might be his IP: 72.30.79.53 you're going to keep hassling your WIFE because WE ALL CAUGHT YOU D.A.? You're PATHETIC! ~~~~~~~~~~~~ "Pathologicals only discard the best, most precious of gems of people... not the worst. They despise the strong, principled, decent & honest. Their discarding of you is then their highest commendation of your worth!" - A.V.