Red Flags and Warning Signs You're Dating A Loser
Red Flags and Warning Signs You're Dating A Loser
Last night prior to going to bed, I pulled out a book I have called Red Flags! How to Know When You're Dating a Loser and a webpage printout I had called "The Loser" Warning Siogns You're Dating A Loser (http://www.drjoecarver.com/clients/49355/File/IdentifyingLosers.html)
I scored my narc against those signs and the results were astonishing to me on just how deep my peril was in having him in my life. So did I dodge a bullet? How yeah! And then some!
According to the Red Flags book, my narc was "The Criticizer". Score above 35 points on any of the tests, and you've got a "Disaster waiting to happen!" My narc scored 84 Points! Crap! I had a serious emotional vampire on my tail!
On "The Loser" just having 3 characteristicds indicates a high risk relationship. Having a high number indicates present indicates more than a probabillity for a certainity that you will be hurt and damaged by The Loser!
On the Red Flag warning signs, out of 20 characteristis, my narc scored 11. This guy had a definite agenda to destroy me!
So this morning, I am feeling stronger, and healthier than better. Better the OW be destroyed than me! I'm sorry it's her, but I'm glad it's not me. Without a doubt, I will be okay now!
No doubt my narc thought he'd found a bigger fish to fry with her. She has the money, the property and resources I likely will never have. I am safe now, and she will be the one destroyed.
All I have really to offer is me, a lifetime of love, warmth and intimacy. My riches are not to be found in any bank, but they are no less considerable.
I also realize my my deriding emails to my narc where ridiculed and mocked him and this board with the support of you ladies has been my therapy. I feel whole now, healthy and complete. Those are my riches, and they are considerable.
In moving forward and working
Believe in yourself!
Terri
One more thing
Believe in yourself!
Terri
Hi Terri
Once you get it! You realize
This was perfect!
Believe in yourself!
Terri
soapergirl
This is uplifting to read!