N just texted me... is this a threat?
N just texted me... is this a threat?
I've been posting a lot of topics lately and I'll cool it for a bit, but I need an outside, objective opinion on this.
I broke NC last week and the N and I went back and forth through text for a bit. His OW was out of town and it was a very weird, twisted mixture of hoovering and D&D. Didn't think that was possible, but this freaked managed to do both simultaneously. He would try to convince me to come over for a quickie, and in the next breath call me a skank, a stupid whore, you name it. It was really shocking.
As soon as his OW got back into town, he cut me off cold and completely stopped responding to my texts. The last one I sent was Monday morning. I once again read him the riot act of narcissism/psychopathy and exposed him.
He didn't respond until today. It said this:
Do I want to fuck you? Of course. Would we eventually kill each other? Yea I can acknowledge that now.
Is this a thinly-veiled threat or just a play on words? I honestly can't tell given the context. Part of me thinks it might only be a turn of phrase because we both have fiery personalities and I'm the only woman in his life who has EVER challenged him, and that's what kept him on his toes for a while, but also what caused so much turbulence.
On the other hand, I wonder if this is a threat. He IS a psychopath, he was diagnosed at 15. "Yea I can acknowledge that now" could mean "Yea, now that it's out in the open, I can admit that I would kill you." He has a way of depersonalizing things- using "some people" or "they" when he means "you" or "me".
Am I over-thinking this? I'm a little disturbed right now. Did this man just admit that he'd eventually kill me?
deecbee
Sex hoover
Ephiph...so TRUE!
spinning
"But yes, I love fucking you
deec, I'm with all the others
spinning
Cut him off!
momoya
Dee
Yuck, not romantic.
N and I used to
I'm glad the consensus is no.
Not a threat
Thanks.. it is tough. They
I don't deem it as a threat,
Whew, I hope not. I just
I should also add, he's never