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#1 Apr 23 - 6PM

Hunter

I need to vent or Im going to call him. Im telling anyone who will listen Don't engage with these assholes.

How dare he…. He told me he has never met anyone in his life as crazy as I am and I ruined his life.

That SOB ruined 20 years of my life.

Every fucking day of those 20 yrs one way or another. When I was on a date he'd somehow mosie around and tell the guy to get away from me. Then I would have to explain and they would dump me. Once he chased me speeding down the road in the after noon screaming at me and my date.

I would be at work and his mother would be waiting out side to torture me. If I wasn't on a date he stand in my face not speak and stare at me.

Half the time I'd end up going home in tears.

Yeah Im the crazy one, well he does have that right because he wins he made me suffer anxiety, & depression. Thanks you Piece of shit. Oh I must be making all this up.

The best part, upon my reappearance he cried, tears, saying he never meant to hurt me

How could one person cause so much damage??

He better stay in NYC Because I swear I will hunt him down.

Hunter GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!

#2 Apr 24 - 11AM

Used

hunter

and you have certainly picked the right name for the job.

#3 Apr 24 - 9AM

Hunter

Thank You

Thank you everyone and Happy Easter! I will Hunt them Down. Hunter

#4 Apr 24 - 10AM (Reply to #12)

Happy1

You are sounding like turnips

You are sounding like turnips Hunter we all know and love! Good for you!

#5 Apr 23 - 10PM

Happy1

Hunter

I think we know now that contact equals pain and narcs equal unstable uncomprehending sob's that will never see clearly! You're going to feel a little better each day because you know what and who he is. Hugs

#6 Apr 23 - 10PM

Sanity Check

Hunter

Just reading what you and Michele said about the mother aspect....can you tell us a little more about the role she played in all of this? Does your exN have any siblings? I'm just curious to know what made him the way he is.

#7 Apr 25 - 9AM (Reply to #9)

Hunter

Sanity check

My narcs mom is more insane than he is, they feed off of each other! She was the reason we never made it together. Once he and I got too close she ripped us apart! She is a crazy loone! The sad thing is he still fuels her fire, she still abuses him and he allows this. The situation is insanity and I want no part of it! You can't fix the unfixable! An old rusted out car need to be dumped , just like Narc insanity! Hunter

#8 Apr 23 - 8PM

michele115 (not verified)

Hunter....

Vilde posted something earlier this week - I have been quiet because I need a break...BUT I've been reading and peeking in... I am going to look for Vilde's post, you may have read it...it was significant for me - very significant and explained ALOT. I've been following the recent "drama" with you and the Narc...and I remember your story from WAAAY back...and what you shared and you and I had a brief pvt. message... When I read your post something banged me in the head and I think if you think about it...it may become clear for you and maybe you will PURGE all the resentment, maybe get over the hump that you're in right now. His mother was doting...and in the middle of everything...on some level may have emasculated him...AND you represented his mother...what he was too chickenshit to do to her...he's done to you. Sometimes we represent "their mother's" and we get to be on the receiving end of their rage, because they never learned how to be man enough to cut the strings. Think back to all you shared she's done... Hunter, this is not a man...excuse my french, but he's a P...sy. YOU are getting twisted over this...DON'T. Really...think about this...this was not a man...whomever he was when you were young...that time is gone...he ain't who he was...you have a life to live. He said 'You ruined his life'...YOU did not ruin his life...HIS MOTHER DID!... I'm going to see if I find Vilde's article. Hugs! EDIT: I found it! http://www.lisaescott.com/forum/2011/04/19/extremely-important-all-about-ow-please-read-it

#9 Apr 25 - 9AM (Reply to #7)

Hunter

You know, you are 100%

You know, you are 100% correct, the more I got to thinking, the D & D started when I started doing things for him, like cooking or cleaning up after him, he got pissed told me to stop and said" I don't need a mother" Another point you made, his mother really did Fuck him up! Funny his brother got the same treatment but he escaped! Hunter

#10 Apr 24 - 9AM (Reply to #6)

Hunter

Michele

I cant Type obviously so I meant he ruined my life, Good Point I think you are correct. He is a pussy. Today, Easter, I have friends and family over. And he will be Drinking getting Drunk at the St Regis, with his mother because she cant even be bothered to Cook a proper meal. He will die alone. And yes, The man of the past is dead. Thank you Michele and Happy Easter to you. Hunter

#11 Apr 23 - 7PM

SoaperGirl

Saturday Nights Are the Worst - Feeling a little lonely

Saturday night. Everybody is out and about it seems but me. However do we cope? I know this is temporary - I feel it, but I'm still feeling lonely tonight. I got a good movie playing on the TV, I've been working on my coupons - but right now, I'm feeling like life is passing me by. Can't help thinking of ex N with his ex N with his new woman - how do these guys find so many eager, willing women so easily?

#12 Apr 23 - 8PM (Reply to #4)

Hope

Meet Up Groups...

Hi SoaperGirl...don't feel bad, I am in occasionally too on the weekends...at first it was bad, I couldn't deal with it, but eventually I started building my life back up, try googling meetup groups in your area, there are meetups for a lot of things, some just social, I made some new friends and I'm learning some new skills like photography, give it a try!!

#13 Apr 23 - 7PM (Reply to #2)

Precious

enjoy it!

this is your time to focus on you! Take advantage of the peace and quite and the fact that you don't have to worry about pleasing anyone but yourself. Take a bubble bath, paint your nails, whatever you like that makes you feel pampered and loved, do that for yourself. Life isn't passing you by, its just beginning!!!!!

#14 Apr 23 - 8PM (Reply to #3)

Redhead1

Per Ideal NC, NC, NC. It's

Per Ideal NC, NC, NC. It's not worth it. He is disordered!!! He has crazy making behavior. You guys will never see eye to eye (cause he is short, bald and fluffed lol) He is not gonna get it. His stunted emotions can comprehend or flex far enough to understand no more than his own feelings. Stay strong. NCNCNCNC

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