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I would always long for what he could do to me and isn't that PATHETIC? He wants to be seen as a SEX MACHINE rather than a loving, compassionate human being? Truly depraved! ~~~~~~~~~~~~ CLICK HERE: Articles & information for Narc Victims - Updated Daily "As soon as you feel that crazy sense of walking on eggshells, fending off N-rage, stop. Walk away." - Dr. M. Beck

Along with the personality disorder, psychopaths have other issues in common, including a decreased need for sleep. Many of the women arrive for treatment in bodily exhaustion from the lack of sleep. The ability to dominate her when she is exhausted is an obvious benefit to the psychopath for keeping her awake. Trance also seems to have some connection with our natural bodily biorhythms, like metabolism, blood sugar and sleep. Trance is most associated though with “focused attention” which is how it gets used in formal hypnosis. That’s why the hypnotist says, “Stare into my eyes” because staring forces attentional focus. Hypnosis and trance involve the ability to heavily focus on one thing while blocking out other things. If you’re staring at the highway or listening intently to a lecture you are entering a trance state. While in this state, you are likely to not notice other things happening around you at the time. If you’re listening to a lecture, you might not notice that someone goes out of the room and closes the door. Or, in highway hypnosis you might drive right past your exit. This extremely focused attention on one thing is essentially a trance state. How could a psychopath put a woman in a trance state without her realizing it? Inducing a trance is nothing more than helping someone get focused. There are many “ways” to go into a trance, so inducing trance in someone else is not that difficult. Since trance is nothing more than intense focus, the psychopath with all the intensity he has inserted in the beginning of the relationship can easily use the intensity to encourage hyperfocus. The enormous amount of time he is spending with her allows him to get her to hyperfocus on “them.” A psychopath does not have to understand the mechanics of trance. He is a master of watching what works and doesn’t work in controlling others. Stumbling across “intensity” in a relationship is all he needs to get to work using it to his advantage. Neuro Linguistic Programming which is a “cousin” to formal hypnosis, induces trance by preoccupying the ego with statements like, “You’re so wonderful and beautiful” and then targeting other messages straight to the unconscious mind through short story telling. Psychopaths are master storytellers — inducing her belief system in his virtues while she is in a trance state. She is now unable to hold her ground against the psychopath, and despite the exhaustion, she remains hypnotized, fixated on his extraverted, highly exciting persona. - Sandra Brown, MA - WOMEN WHO LOVE PSYCHOPATHS (WWLP Book) Add to that the fact that women are OBJECTS to them and they all suffer from Centerfold Syndrome (too much porn telling them how women SHOULD be) ~~~~~~~~~~~~ CLICK HERE: Articles & information for Narc Victims - Updated Daily "As soon as you feel that crazy sense of walking on eggshells, fending off N-rage, stop. Walk away." - Dr. M. Beck

seriously, I thought that was it but wanted to make sure, with them there might be something else too who knows, in the honeymoon phase he was doing that to me two days straight crucial time you know that honeymoon phase, I just didnt know they had a name for it