Do some Ns REFUSE to let you GO?
Do some Ns REFUSE to let you GO?
My alleged "N" also has disarmed my three attempts to leave the marriage, successfully by planting self doubt about whether it was good for the kids to break apart the family. Then telling me I would ruin them FOREVER and how selfish I was for even thinking I should leave. Did he stand infront of the door? No. Take away my car keys? No (although he has ripped, I mean RIPPED things out of my hands before when he insists HE do something, I say "no, fine ive got it" he will rip or take whatever it is Im holding, phone, keys, etc. and do it himself as if to say "YOU WILL OBEY ME." ) gross.
No, he didnt physically stand in my way to leave. He waited. He waited until I was out on my own and scared, and then proceeded to call me at all times of the night and day, show up at where I was staying, etc. and do things out of charater for the relationship,like be attentive and buy me and our daughter flowers for Valentines day (He "forgets" mother's day EVERY YEAR) or have SEX with me (he withholds sex for MONTHS at a time).
Could someone plz give me some insight on this? Im getting ready to leave FOR GOOD FOR EVER and would appreciate some tactics on this matter.
Thanks again!
yes!
Silvascript
Silvascript
wash that man right outta your hair
Washing hair..
Won't Let Go
Thanks
I did the separation first
divorce
Not sure...