new man paints his toenails ?

How can you know he paints his toenails? Did he tell you?Was he wearing sandels? I am here in the good ol' USofA. Only two times have I seen a man with his nails done. Once a man with a French pedicure--he was a gay, NYC ballet dancer. The other at a huge party, his wife was there, but they were totally into S/M & bondage stuff. He had had his nails done that day, painted some weird blue color. (Don't ask how I ended up at this place--a friend brought me, sorta a Gatsby, one time per month affair. & they were very rich. Beautiful house.) I had a boyfriend once who was from Lebanon & a professional hairdresser. Very straight. But, one time per month he went to have his toe nails & finger nails clipped & buffed, & the cuticles cut, and the callouses removed. That I can understand. But no color or French pedicure.

I'm pretty sure the ex-Psych professor shaved his chest, because it had an amazingly small amount of hair (the one time I saw it)... and he was always scratching it despite the fact there's something called aftershave/moisturizer. If he had moisturized, he wouldn't have been itching his chest ALL THE TIME. Actors&models tend to shave their chests, not professors...LOL...

What color does he paint them?

You can always go out with him and just be friends, if that is possible! I can speak only fro myself, I find it creepy and if you raise doubts about that, they will not go away, we all have our lines in the sand, you know what I mean! good luck and keep us posted.