NC while you share kids

LoveTamara's picture
July 24, 2012 - 2:25pm — LoveTamara

I am trying very hard to have NC with my husband but We have a 5 year old son.

My husband took my son for the night and uses having him for an excuse to talk to me.

He has sent texts saying since you dont have Hayden (our son) you can whore it up!

Once i don't responded to that he later send a text saying We are at the movies and I got him a new hat. Trying a different method to get something outta me?

How do i handle this?

I get weak when he hoovers and i just need to move on. It has only been 3 weeks and really only a few days since I moved my stuff out and he has moved his OW in.

HELP!!!!

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goldie's picture

As you say, it has only been 3 weeks

July 25, 2012 - 9:15am — goldie

Takes time for you to become stronger with sorting out what is necessary to respond to and what is not.

Makes it easier for you if he has OW believe it or not because she will occupy some of his time.

Respond to anything which directly involves your son and his well being, which you know he needs your unput. Things you know he already knows and it just using son, to get to you, IGNORE.

INSULTS/ignore
Attempts to hoover you/ignore

Seek the advice of an attorney, court mediator, the woman's center, ect....if I gets out of hand and they will advice you as to how best to deal with him.

I do not know enough about your situation to randomly advise.

You may want to schedule a one on one if you would like to go over your situation in more depth.

God bless,
Goldie