All About Him Forum

The All About Him Forum is specifically for newcomers just beginning to understand why narcissists behave the way they do and why they are incapable of genuine love. This forum is focused on working the first three steps to recovering from a narcissist.

1 – Understand It
2 – Get It Out
3 – No Contact

The first three steps often overlap and many of you may find yourself going back and forth between them. This is understandable and perfectly acceptable. No one should beat themselves up for having to repeat a step. "No Contact" often takes several repeated attempts. We must remember, it is about PROGRESS, not PERFECTION. We must celebrate our progress and encourage one another to keep pushing forward.

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Thinking that spending hours per day understanding Narcissism is going to fix this, set you free?
by Goldie » March 31, 2015 - 11:08am
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677 by Goldie
March 31, 2015 - 11:14am
He's a narc who cut me deep.
by LadyFrances » March 30, 2015 - 6:24am
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1,044 by LadyFrances
March 30, 2015 - 7:50pm
Disappointed in myself....I know better
by grneyedgrl66 » March 29, 2015 - 4:50pm
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706 by grneyedgrl66
March 30, 2015 - 9:49am
A letter to myself
by NicoleLoyola » March 29, 2015 - 2:35pm
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463 by stayingstrong11
March 30, 2015 - 12:28am
question about aliases/different names
by friendofafriend » March 25, 2015 - 5:49pm
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818 by X
March 29, 2015 - 6:47pm
Narcissists LIE; You have just been Zapped by a Pathological Narcissist
by Goldie » February 24, 2015 - 12:33pm
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2,045 by Cherub
March 29, 2015 - 4:44am
Nightmare last night. Wanting to scream
by stayingstrong11 » March 23, 2015 - 9:36am
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621 by Cherub
March 29, 2015 - 4:37am
So here's where I am today
by NicoleLoyola » March 24, 2015 - 7:52am
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1,144 by omgalso
March 28, 2015 - 10:07am
Old Pictures
by nurdnarehgum » January 21, 2013 - 4:30pm
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955 by nurdnarehgum
March 27, 2015 - 11:41pm
Healing doesn't mean the the damaged never existed. It means the damage no longer controls our lives!!!
by Goldie » March 26, 2015 - 6:43pm
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660 by Goldie
March 26, 2015 - 6:43pm
Two useful quote about Anger and Resentment
by Im so tired of ... » March 25, 2015 - 10:32am
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698 by Goldie
March 26, 2015 - 11:47am
A little Hoover
by ladylilly » March 23, 2015 - 8:02pm
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1,251 by ladylilly
March 25, 2015 - 11:08pm
the timing is impeccible
by betterforit » March 19, 2015 - 4:12pm
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999 by betterforit
March 25, 2015 - 1:27pm
New Support Groups, Update, Including Advanced Group Registration Information
by Goldie » March 9, 2015 - 11:43am
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576 by Goldie
March 23, 2015 - 10:30am
Vampires
by Im so tired of ... » March 18, 2015 - 2:33pm
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755 by Im so tired of ...
March 22, 2015 - 6:33pm
I would like some feedback
by omgalso » March 17, 2015 - 7:43pm
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834 by thebigpayback
March 21, 2015 - 7:23pm
The notion of expecting a Narcissist to tell you the entire truth is frankly, ridiculous.
by Goldie » March 12, 2015 - 8:27am
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1,177 by Cybyl
March 19, 2015 - 11:52am
Believing the narcissists lies; fantasy thinking vs. truth.
by Goldie » March 17, 2015 - 12:14pm
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763 by Janie53
March 18, 2015 - 1:38pm
so sad today...
by stayingstrong11 » March 16, 2015 - 3:00pm
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547 by ItsFinallytime
March 17, 2015 - 9:27am
lots of crying these past few days for me.
by betterforit » March 15, 2015 - 12:17pm
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834 by Im so tired of ...
March 17, 2015 - 8:05am
A year and a half later.... same place...
by AlwaysSummer » March 13, 2015 - 6:52pm
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868 by Goldie
March 16, 2015 - 10:48am
I am mad and sad
by betterforit » March 9, 2015 - 8:55am
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794 by ladylilly
March 15, 2015 - 4:23pm
Feeling like you are dead inside
by ladylilly » March 6, 2015 - 10:40pm
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957 by omgalso
March 14, 2015 - 2:22pm
This work is more difficult that I had anticipated
by omgalso » March 12, 2015 - 8:35pm
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680 by omgalso
March 14, 2015 - 2:11pm
Really Really need support today
by NicoleLoyola » February 26, 2015 - 9:53am
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1,087 by ladylilly
March 13, 2015 - 9:51pm
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