All About Him Forum

The All About Him Forum is specifically for newcomers just beginning to understand why narcissists behave the way they do and why they are incapable of genuine love. This forum is focused on working the first three steps to recovering from a narcissist.

1 – Understand It
2 – Get It Out
3 – No Contact

The first three steps often overlap and many of you may find yourself going back and forth between them. This is understandable and perfectly acceptable. No one should beat themselves up for having to repeat a step. "No Contact" often takes several repeated attempts. We must remember, it is about PROGRESS, not PERFECTION. We must celebrate our progress and encourage one another to keep pushing forward.

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Healing doesn't mean the the damaged never existed. It means the damage no longer controls our lives!!!
by Goldie » March 26, 2015 - 6:43pm
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626 by Goldie
March 26, 2015 - 6:43pm
Two useful quote about Anger and Resentment
by Im so tired of ... » March 25, 2015 - 10:32am
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643 by Goldie
March 26, 2015 - 11:47am
A little Hoover
by ladylilly » March 23, 2015 - 8:02pm
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1,195 by ladylilly
March 25, 2015 - 11:08pm
the timing is impeccible
by betterforit » March 19, 2015 - 4:12pm
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939 by betterforit
March 25, 2015 - 1:27pm
New Support Groups, Update, Including Advanced Group Registration Information
by Goldie » March 9, 2015 - 11:43am
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529 by Goldie
March 23, 2015 - 10:30am
Vampires
by Im so tired of ... » March 18, 2015 - 2:33pm
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707 by Im so tired of ...
March 22, 2015 - 6:33pm
I would like some feedback
by omgalso » March 17, 2015 - 7:43pm
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778 by thebigpayback
March 21, 2015 - 7:23pm
The notion of expecting a Narcissist to tell you the entire truth is frankly, ridiculous.
by Goldie » March 12, 2015 - 8:27am
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1,132 by Cybyl
March 19, 2015 - 11:52am
Believing the narcissists lies; fantasy thinking vs. truth.
by Goldie » March 17, 2015 - 12:14pm
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722 by Janie53
March 18, 2015 - 1:38pm
so sad today...
by stayingstrong11 » March 16, 2015 - 3:00pm
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517 by ItsFinallytime
March 17, 2015 - 9:27am
lots of crying these past few days for me.
by betterforit » March 15, 2015 - 12:17pm
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791 by Im so tired of ...
March 17, 2015 - 8:05am
A year and a half later.... same place...
by AlwaysSummer » March 13, 2015 - 6:52pm
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833 by Goldie
March 16, 2015 - 10:48am
I am mad and sad
by betterforit » March 9, 2015 - 8:55am
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754 by ladylilly
March 15, 2015 - 4:23pm
Feeling like you are dead inside
by ladylilly » March 6, 2015 - 10:40pm
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907 by omgalso
March 14, 2015 - 2:22pm
This work is more difficult that I had anticipated
by omgalso » March 12, 2015 - 8:35pm
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629 by omgalso
March 14, 2015 - 2:11pm
Really Really need support today
by NicoleLoyola » February 26, 2015 - 9:53am
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1,028 by ladylilly
March 13, 2015 - 9:51pm
hurting and feeling like giving in....need to be honest
by stayingstrong11 » March 11, 2015 - 1:10am
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650 by Journey
March 11, 2015 - 3:05pm
Having one of those days
by betterforit » March 10, 2015 - 12:12pm
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509 by betterforit
March 11, 2015 - 10:39am
Almost broke NC, but stopped when I started to panic
by reneemurphy523 » March 8, 2015 - 9:02pm
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639 by Journey
March 10, 2015 - 4:28pm
No response vs No contact
by Deidre99 » March 4, 2015 - 8:06pm
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1,083 by Deidre99
March 8, 2015 - 4:40pm
Gratitude for those who love you as opposed to obsession for those who don't love you!!!! ~Goldie~
by Goldie » March 7, 2015 - 10:45am
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460 by Goldie
March 7, 2015 - 10:45am
Are you still addicted to your Narcissist? Longing for a Hoover?
by Goldie » February 24, 2015 - 3:11pm
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1,021 by ladylilly
March 6, 2015 - 10:53pm
#DearMe
by Goldie » March 6, 2015 - 1:46pm
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448 by spinning
March 6, 2015 - 3:15pm
co signed a loan
by betterforit » February 28, 2015 - 8:34am
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601 by Hunter
March 5, 2015 - 2:31pm
my first hoover
by betterforit » March 1, 2015 - 8:47am
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915 by ItsFinallytime
March 5, 2015 - 9:23am
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