All About Him Forum

The All About Him Forum is specifically for newcomers just beginning to understand why narcissists behave the way they do and why they are incapable of genuine love. This forum is focused on working the first three steps to recovering from a narcissist.

1 – Understand It
2 – Get It Out
3 – No Contact

The first three steps often overlap and many of you may find yourself going back and forth between them. This is understandable and perfectly acceptable. No one should beat themselves up for having to repeat a step. "No Contact" often takes several repeated attempts. We must remember, it is about PROGRESS, not PERFECTION. We must celebrate our progress and encourage one another to keep pushing forward.

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Believing the narcissists lies; fantasy thinking vs. truth.
by Goldie » March 17, 2015 - 12:14pm
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667 by Janie53
March 18, 2015 - 1:38pm
so sad today...
by stayingstrong11 » March 16, 2015 - 3:00pm
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477 by ItsFinallytime
March 17, 2015 - 9:27am
lots of crying these past few days for me.
by betterforit » March 15, 2015 - 12:17pm
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751 by Im so tired of ...
March 17, 2015 - 8:05am
A year and a half later.... same place...
by AlwaysSummer » March 13, 2015 - 6:52pm
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764 by Goldie
March 16, 2015 - 10:48am
I am mad and sad
by betterforit » March 9, 2015 - 8:55am
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703 by ladylilly
March 15, 2015 - 4:23pm
Feeling like you are dead inside
by ladylilly » March 6, 2015 - 10:40pm
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858 by omgalso
March 14, 2015 - 2:22pm
This work is more difficult that I had anticipated
by omgalso » March 12, 2015 - 8:35pm
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578 by omgalso
March 14, 2015 - 2:11pm
Really Really need support today
by NicoleLoyola » February 26, 2015 - 9:53am
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976 by ladylilly
March 13, 2015 - 9:51pm
hurting and feeling like giving in....need to be honest
by stayingstrong11 » March 11, 2015 - 1:10am
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613 by Journey
March 11, 2015 - 3:05pm
Having one of those days
by betterforit » March 10, 2015 - 12:12pm
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471 by betterforit
March 11, 2015 - 10:39am
Almost broke NC, but stopped when I started to panic
by reneemurphy523 » March 8, 2015 - 9:02pm
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594 by Journey
March 10, 2015 - 4:28pm
No response vs No contact
by Deidre99 » March 4, 2015 - 8:06pm
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1,016 by Deidre99
March 8, 2015 - 4:40pm
Gratitude for those who love you as opposed to obsession for those who don't love you!!!! ~Goldie~
by Goldie » March 7, 2015 - 10:45am
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415 by Goldie
March 7, 2015 - 10:45am
Are you still addicted to your Narcissist? Longing for a Hoover?
by Goldie » February 24, 2015 - 3:11pm
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948 by ladylilly
March 6, 2015 - 10:53pm
#DearMe
by Goldie » March 6, 2015 - 1:46pm
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425 by spinning
March 6, 2015 - 3:15pm
co signed a loan
by betterforit » February 28, 2015 - 8:34am
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557 by Hunter
March 5, 2015 - 2:31pm
my first hoover
by betterforit » March 1, 2015 - 8:47am
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835 by ItsFinallytime
March 5, 2015 - 9:23am
Saw my
by betterforit » March 3, 2015 - 8:20am
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575 by betterforit
March 3, 2015 - 12:48pm
Finally out.
by blue1990 » February 24, 2015 - 10:27am
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539 by spinning
March 3, 2015 - 11:03am
Trouble with memories
by moviegal » March 2, 2015 - 4:30pm
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529 by spinning
March 3, 2015 - 10:01am
I gave into contact and I'm so mad at myself
by stayingstrong11 » February 25, 2015 - 4:24pm
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809 by moviegal
March 2, 2015 - 5:04pm
thank you and what are you guys thankful for now that the Narc is gone
by stayingstrong11 » February 21, 2015 - 8:42pm
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518 by moviegal
March 2, 2015 - 4:43pm
Bad few days.... Had contact yesterday due to housing stuff
by stayingstrong11 » March 1, 2015 - 12:37pm
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561 by stayingstrong11
March 2, 2015 - 11:48am
Goldie's support group
by stayingstrong11 » March 1, 2015 - 6:38pm
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275 by ItsFinallytime
March 1, 2015 - 6:50pm
New Support Groups w/Goldie Beginning Shortly
by Goldie » February 24, 2015 - 3:19pm
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519 by Goldie
February 26, 2015 - 9:48am
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