I was doing so well until...

the news that his brother was murdered. I have decided not to contacf him as well as staying away from his Facebook page. I think about the familly constantly. I just want to hug his brother's wife and his mom .

However , I do find it bizarre that he has not called yet. I just knew that he would use this as an oppurtunity to reconcile with his daughter (aka hoover). He has reached out to my college friends who live in other states but no one has called my mother. (who he usually calls when he "misses his family" every couple of months.

I have a feeling this is another tactic he is using. Silent treatment, maybe?

As horrible as he is as a father, its just really hard to believe that he has not thought of his daughter once during this time.