One year Out

One year out, no contact, still reading the blog semi-regularly for the moral support, especially when I have intrusive thoughts. Working on myself, and when I get tired of that, not blaming any of it on the N. Starting to meet new people, and have energy for new relationships. It bothers me that N ever crosses my mind, and it bothers me, perfectionist that I am, that I haven't fixed all of my FOO issues (perfectionism being one of them). Still, proud of myself and grateful the way my life's been changing in recent months.
Good wishes to all here.