pamsjustbeachy's story

Pams story

Read the book answered yes to all the Narc questions , he is in there.

Accidently found out after thanksgiving, he gave up apt in my name in sep to move in with her ( business apt in another state)

He travels all the time for work. I called him out over a year ago on feelings, he could have broke it off then, and again in the summer, but no, hes not talking to anyone else.

I had to piece it together and find out by accident, hes been using me for my credit ( for over a year) for his business and car and business apt ect. Its been two monthes, freaking sucks, he jumped ship soon as he knew the gig was up, and now barely pays any bills which are bigger than me, unbelievable.

Still struggling , but trying to do steps to move forward, is so hard. This is brief hes been seeing her and sexually active with her since Jan 12. No sex with me forever because hes so sick so stressed ect ect all lies, hard to deal with all this decieption.

Thank you for listenig