Help! How do I get past this when he lives right near me and I have to keep seeing him?
Help! How do I get past this when he lives right near me and I have to keep seeing him?
hi everyone, i need support today. i've been doing awesome with NC (15 months). but yesterday it hit me like a ton of bricks again. i was sitting in my front yard enjoying a beautiful day with my kids and of course who goes flying by on his dirt bike with all his buddies. yep. talk about a trigger. why does it get to me so much that he is so happy? he is a scumbag, a liar, and has been cheating on his adoring wife for over 20 years, and yet he is happy as a pig in shit. by the way, i walked away from him and didn't give him closure. that is what has made me feel good on bad days. i will never break NC, but how do i get better when i have to see him all the time with his fun life and it makes me feel sick. i keep reading that they're not happy but he seems pretty happy to me. just having a hard time with this.
thanks to all of you for your responses
sadderand wiser
I wish I had the answer for
Living near narc
How I’ve come to process
Because they don't care, Narcs lack empathy
His "Happy Face"
too funny!
The best thing you can do is
sadderand wiser
He appears happy......