Mohawk13's story...

I was in a relationship with my ex for 4 years. I never even new what an N was until I came across this site. I new something was wrong with him... but didnt know exactly what it was. He lied, decieved me, would disappear, blame me for things he was doing to me, tell me I had double standards when he was the one doing it, yell at me, swear at me, wouldnt take accountablity for his actions, has no relationship with his children, no money, no job(long term disability), we never spent a holiday together, i could go on and on... Why did I stay? Why did I constanlty go back? It was comfortable, he told me I was beautiful and that he wanted to take care of me, he loved my son. That was about it. Until the last straw... which was this past week. We were texting one day while I was at work. I told him that I had just gotten my period. He told me to call him when it was finished! I said.. "When whats finished baby?" he said..."your period"... I said your kidding me right? and then he just flipped out... started swearing at me and then had the nerve to tell me... well since I had my period that I was going to give him BJ's... 2 of em and if I didnt or came up with any kind of excuse not to that he wouldnt speak to me until hell froze over...! I was in shock... and we havent spoken since... and well its a few day before Christmas.... What did I see in this man again?