What did he not let you do, not agree with etc... Let's share! Im looking for a giggle!
What did he not let you do, not agree with etc... Let's share! Im looking for a giggle!
I'll start with me...what did he not like, kick up a fuss about, sook about and basically be a narc about-
* My FB, apparently I used it to much and didnt pay enough attention to him. If I was logged into the Chat function, he would interrogate why, who was I speaking to etc etc. Never ending story this was with us.
*My phone, who I messaged, what I said etc
*Wanted to be with me all the time, was a bit of a trial seeing my friends while he was around.
*Didnt want me conversing with my ex bf; but him seeing his,because they have a kid, is OK.
*Didnt like my friends who told me to leave him
*Hated me wearing pyjamas-not sexy enough, not enough of a whore..madonna/whore complex
*I didnt stay over his place when his dad was away; he used to have a little fit that I didnt put enough time into making an effort to spend nights together.
*Didnt like when I would go to the local shops or anywhere really without telling him. He went everywhere without telling me. Nice double standards. Enmeshment yeh?!
*Didnt like that I never told my parents about him or even introduced him. He didnt introduce me either; again double standards.
*Hated that I didnt talk much, didnt participate in discussions to let him know much of my life. This was intentional on my part. Clearly! They use info you tell them against you in future.
*I never put him on a pedestal. This irritated him greatly.
*If I talked about what I read on FB on someones post, he would get annoyed and ask me why I cared. That I didnt put enough time into our rship than I did caring about others.
*If we went out for coffee/dinner, why was I looking around at other people/checking ppl out? Ummm I wasnt. So to appease I would choose a table that faced away from the crowd and look at him and the wall. Sad huh!
*Didnt like me opposing his ideas or saying that we werent soul mates.
*Didnt want me to buy him stuff or be prententious
*Said that I valued money over love and children
*If I didnt respond to msgs quickly enough or didnt much on the phone while at work.
*I was too cold/too clinical/too stand offish/an ice queen/not maternal etc etc. This is called my defense mechanism. I knew what was coming.
*That I didnt trust him and he was sick of 'defending' himself. For real.... ;/
* He hated that I never initiated intimacy, that it was always him. Made him feel unloved and gave him a complex...
I am sure I can think of more as we go along but these are the ones that stand out for me at present.
*ohhh another one, he would meet me after I would have an evening meeting, expecting sex, I clearly was in no mood; so he would sulk off. NO SHIT, he would just leave...LOL. Things really turned sour for me from then on. No real loving bf EVER leaves when you turn him down like a sooky child. Sucks to be his ego...
Share away lovely ladies! I am sure we will have many many similarities and overlaps :)
xx
Lovely1
Well let me see... * He hated
Xnh would try to tell me how
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God sometimes removes a person from your life for your protection. Don't run after them.
My annoying ass NH:
Didn't like
Pumpkin
ah the masters of double, triple standards.....
He thought it was ridiculous
Journey on...
OMG my nh says the dishwasher
My list is long but I will summarize it:
what he did not let me do
too subtle to object outright.
Evergreen- in the same! This
sole focus.
Sole focus on him-exactly
trust!
Kissing and cuddling
Touching affectionately was off limits
Mine too
A few of mine: -the house was
narcs are fussy little queens
I wasn't allowed to leave the
Remembered a few more Wasn't
Wasnt allowed to/ Didnt like
LMAO! Feel his guns
I see we were married to
He couldn't stand if I..
OH...the drama
What he didn't like and would have tantrums over...
I was not allowed to stand on
Well, you've got me curious
OMG the strange rules.....