Mine works in concreteing. He is in charge of a small group of people and gets to manipulate and embarass them if they are new. He loves it and acts like a hero.
He's gotten himself into several fights with other people that work there. The job is mainly for people who have no qualifications who can't get anything else, so they are all lowlifes like him.
I think he loves surrounding himself with losers more than he actually loves the job itself.
His workmates have a nickname for him, I can't remember what it is- but it gives reference too him flying off the handle at any given time and behaving like a rabid dog. He was very proud of this nickname btw...
Let me just add he wants to be a criminal as well btw. Yes, I'm serious. He is obsessed with prison shows and actually WANTS to go to prison!!! This is probably more a spath trait of his , but still...
Mine has the "perfect kindly man" false self mask, too. It's a pure Ted Bundy style manipulation. I fell in love with him because I thought he was the kindest man I had ever encountered. Ha haha. It's beyond laughable now. They are by far the deadliest. He kicked me to the curb, left me for dead. So so kind, huh?
He was an engineer, has an MBA and was a day trader when I met him. Now he's an indolent play boy or play man, I guess. A career jerk wad, though, for sure.
Mine was an executive VP of property development for a very large, successful retail company. Yes lots and lots of travel, women in every port, lots of money and lots of free time too to travel anywhere. Everyone at work respects him and look up to him....ugh! Had a great time and was very generous to me but had to get off the roller coaster of emotional abuse.
This is great!
Ok ,mine might be the biggest loser of all. I could win this one, Narc of the week award.
I guess he gets one point for having a job ( so he says)
OK……. Ready…. HEHEEEE, He's the dog whisper , Or so he thinks.
He's a dog trainer….. I guess the only thing he can control are dogs. His method…. Shock the shit out of the dog till he becomes submissive.
He has owned a jewelry store, (mommy must have financed that) been an artist, Traded antique furniture, worked for the NJ police Dept. training K9's (got fired) .
Now he thinks he a celebrity Manhattan dog trainer. His web site is ALL ABOUT HIM. Photo after photo of himself and His dog. Not much of anything else,Just his Gnome mug Shot.
LOSER
Hunter
Hunter, your post made me laugh out loud, here in my quiet office, without a door. thanks because I so needed a good laugh today.
"Hey Terri, what's so funny in there?"
Mine..."Sells" Tuxedos...LMAO!
For WEDDINGS!...ROTFL!!!
Oh GAWD, help me....I think my side just split...
Shyte!...Tuxes! BWHAHAAAAA
AND tried to pass the shop off as his own to someone...that was a tickle...
But now that I'm somewhat healed - I do have a soft spot for him, I can see the pathos in all of it...don't want to be near him...he did try to destroy me and crap all over me...he has no soul...so I enjoy the comedy of it all...WHAT ELSE DO I HAVE?
HugS!
mine is a senior software engineer
he travels all the time for his job, perfect set up to have a woman in every port, just like a sailor
and several like me & the OW set up to skype and phone sex with when he's alone and drunk in a hotel room
My N is a farmer right now... He has always farmed as a second job. He lost his primary job due to alcoholism.. He used to be a engineer driving trains. He made good money and was able to treat his women well... Now, he can't and is looking for a suger momma... He will be back around full force when the unemployment runs out and I am out of debt. Which will be another 1 1/2 years... Yeah, he will be a leach then...
mine was in the law enforcement field, got fired and was unemployed (while I took care of him) now, he sells media and advertising as he is a felon and this is the best he can do, even with an MBA, his reocrd and terrible personailty make him nothing more than a salesman on commision only. HA!
Travels around the country doing contract work for companies doing armed security for union strikes, etc. I have read a lot of N' are military, police, anything that gives them a sense of power. For mine he can shack up for a few months with a new woman and move on when the contract is up. When he was with me he was traveling all over and I am sure left early to go be with OW and came back late for the same. He knew a lot about strip clubs. I always thought a lot of men with traveling jobs do it to meet OW.
He used to own his own business and star in some horrible local commercials on TV. Of course, he thought they were fabulous. He loved being out and about and being recognized. After he sold the business and the famous spokesman Billy Mays died, he thought he could get a job being a national spokesman. I left last August, and have not seen him on TV, so I am assuming that did not work out for him!!
fighting for the underdog. Always fighting for people who can't fight for themselves.
Funny part is-- deep inside I think he helps so many people in bad spots because he wants to be good, just can't figure out how.
It really is sad in a way. I don't think he'll ever find a way out of his hell-- but I know I cant let him suck me in anymore with him.
Huh. Mine too. That's maybe the best explanation I've seen. I just didn't understand how he could care so much for his clients and the mindf*ck those who tried to love him.
Don't forget these guys are all about image. What better way to look like a nice, compassionate, empathetic, unselfish, altruistic person, all traits they don't possess, than to present this false persona to the world? What better way to get people to let their guard down and trust him? He gets NS from people and "fans" who commend, applaud and worship him for doing so much for other people, and I'm sure makes it easier to lure in unsuspecting women for NS because he's "such a nice guy." A real "Hero" fighting for the underdog. Don't kid yourself. He doesn't give a shit about his clients, it's still all about him. Just another tactic to garner the most attention, admiration, adulation, and adoration from everyone, and make it easier to dupe them because people are more likely to trust him. Just a better hidden wolf in sheep's clothing.
He's currently a loser with no job... and will probably never be able to do anything because he's convicted felon, so he'll never be able to get a REAL job or OWN a good business (as he has no skills) =)
NEITHER MY EXNH OR EXN EVER WORKED, AND IF THEY DID ANYTHING IT WAS NEVER LEGAL, HOW THE HELL I GOT 2 LOWLIFES LIKE THIS IN ONE LIFE TIME WILL ALWAYS PUZZLE ME.
BOTH BEEN IN PRISON, BOTH BONE IDOL,BOTH A WASTE OF SPACE, WHAT MORE CAN I SAY....LOL.
OH AND BOTH DEALERS, NARC BEFORE I MET HIM EXNH AFTER I LEFT HIM....OMG IS IT ME?
When he got out of jail the only job he could get was back with his old boss who yells at him, completely controls him, and pits one employee against another to get them to out perform each other. You can really see his true self by his job performance. He treats women like crap, but runs like a little wussy boy whenever his boss calls him. The guy screams at the top of his lungs: M and he says, I gotta go.
God bless,
Goldie
No lie.
>.<
Which means now he basically does nothing. Sails boats for people if he has a chance to do so. Other than that. . . um. . . professional boozehound?
Sales Rep
for a medical advancement tech company. He had to dress well everyday and use his charm and charisma to get the product out to the medical markets. He was constantly meeting new people, had to travel at times and had tons on names in his phone.
Full time job: Engineer. He would say he loved to take things to bits and put them back together so they would work properly. Methinks he also liked to take people to bits and then kick the bits round the floor until they were all mixed up, decide he was bored and look for a bright shiny new one. :o( .... yuck. Woke up feeling awful today x
Once told me he had been a bounty hunter-HA! But really he has owned many car dealerships and owns rental property. Never has had a long term career, but always has huge amounts of cash on him at all times??? very strange
Mine has never worked in his life. Yes 40 years of age and never had a job, He is a bum, Bummed his way through life, Used me for 13 years for money and any one else he could, I could tell you things on here what would make your hair curl what he would do for money. When i finally get to do my story on here it will all be in there, He is a bastard, Well he might as well be a pimp,
EVIL, VILE, SICK BASTARD!!!
Mine works in concreteing. He
Let me just add he wants to
Adoette
VP
Jobs
LOL!!!!!!!!
Believe in yourself!
Terri
Oh...
Believe in yourself!
Terri
Hunter...I think I topped you...
Michele
mine is a senior software
Mine is a
mine was in the law
Armed security
not too much
He used to own his own
a lawyer
beamoflight
All About Image
Retired Teacher
He's currently a loser with
lazy as sin
Sounds like my X Kiwi
Former policeman, now a pirate
what does n do for a living
Mine
Sales Rep for a medical
Jobs
He is an auto mechanic
Many Jobs
Mine has never worked in his
STAY STRONG!! XX