Do we improve them for the next woman?
Do we improve them for the next woman?
Has anyone else thought this? I was looking at the closure letter I didn't send and started wondering this. I heard from a therapist once that she and her colleagues wouldn't treat narcs bc it only made them better at...well, being narcs. It taught them to better mimic the feelings of empathy and compassion. So, I started wondering, don't we sort of do that, teach them how to behave? Do all of our tears, words, frustrations, openness make them treat the next woman better? I would hate to think that happens. I know they can't be cured, once a narc always a narc, but what if they evolve, so the next woman benefits from our hard work and training of these narcs? I hope this doesn't bring anyone down. I'm just thinking that another good reason to not send a letter is why give him anymore help on how to be decent human beings? (Wow, do I sound bitter?)
That would assume that we could grow empathy in them...
I remember thinking and
Look at making him better
Improving them for OW
Alibi10
No...they don't change. How
It doesn't matter
momoya
Brilliant post!
EXN
momoya
I am not sure
I totally get what you are
more wannabe bodybuilders?
Hmmm payback when they get
I fear he has already improved
Probably because she is
Nope!
Yes, I believe this is what happens.
Mines must be kinda dumb...
I remember during one of our
Ditto!
I'm so proud of you! From
strongerthanever
hopeAgain
narcissizednomore
HopeAgain
Don't Worry
Michele
The next woman was HIM...
I don't think so
stay~strong
You are so right with this...
I agree Disillusionedx2