I'm ready to go NC--please help me through this :=(
I'm ready to go NC--please help me through this :=(
Ok. I've posted a series of threads. We broke up Friday. Got back together Sunday (yesterday). Had another argument tonight. Here's the details.
He changed his status on FB to 'single.' He kept toying with me about keeping it that way. I said...go ahead...but, then I'm single too. ;) He didn't like that. Of course!
Well, we belong to another website together. He doesn't post there much, because he's pissed sooo many people off with his obnoxious, rude behavior. Anyways. I haven't posted on their much, and took my profile down. Today, I reactivated it. I told him this...and he blows up! He says...''you know what Dee? You're a LIAR. You lie. You say...I'm done with the forums. Then, I looked today, and you posted. So, guess what? You reap what you sow. If you can play with your profile, I just might leave my status as single on FB.''
I said ''you're equating the two? Why do you want everyone to 'think' you're single?'' He said...''if you can change your mind, so can I.''
Ok. To me? This is the final straw. I won't tolerate someone who wants to attract other women...on FB...and also wants to date me. And if that's not his game...I won't tolerate a man playing with my emotions. If I had a FB page active, and refused to change that I was single? He'd have a cow.
So. He pulls his usual...''I'm going to bed. This conversation IS CLOSED. If you don't let me get off the phone, I'll hang up.''
:=D
LOL
OMG.
Not even 24 hours later after we agreed to be back together. Ok. This man is going to pay. I will no longer cry...and put up with someone so blatantly disrespecting me like this. He promised he would change his status. Fine. Don't. Cause dude? YOU ARE SINGLE NOW, BABY!!!!!!
Please tell me how to do this. He texted me already. He said...''let the forums go babe. I love you. Nite.''
No. I love you doesn't cut it anymore. He loves himself. I am DONE.
Please help me...I am so bad at staying NC in the beginning stages. So...how do you do this???
michele
Diedre...
Yes...I am seeing this more
michele
Diedre...
So...he's being mean now...ugh
Diedre
michele
Diedre...
to michele
We'll be waiting Diedre!!
Kinda feeling blue but for different reasons
You have to just take care of
KG
You're right, KG. I went to
Deirdre ..... good for you!
KG
yes Diedre you are very funny!
Diedre
Diedre
michele
You are welcome Diedre!
RE: He said...''I was always
I doubt he'll ever
Diedre...
Wow, he couldn't pretend to
really
Narcs/diedre
I'm SO glad you are going NC!
kauaigirl