When I broke up with my Narc, she didn't hesitate to let me know 2 days after she had a new boyfriend and update all of her social media sites to feature a picture of her and him. I never contacted her (followed the NC rule), never sent smoke signals. Two months into her new "relationship" she texts me randomly "Hey I hope you are ok. I saw in the news there was a train accident in New York" (I live in New York).
Why would she out of the blue do that? Is it because her new supply is not fulfilling all her needs?
The Hoover
The Narcissist's Hoover Maneuver