Player or narcissist ?

Please can someone tell me if this guy sounds like a narcassist?
I met him online. We made dates and he would always stand me up. He always came out with excuses. I know I should have walked away then. He then texted me to ask me out and because I didn't text him back within the next 10 minutes he text me again and said ok we go another time. I text him to say I could come but he didn't answer. Eventually we did meet and he was nice but rushed me into bed- I know I shouldn't have. No phone call for days after. I texted him and asked him if he didnt like me and he said that he did. I go out with him for about 9 months our meetings were perhaps once a month. He would blow hot and cold. Not bothering with me after our dates. We would go for a drink to a local bar. He said that he has never taken any woman to his local bars before. He is big headed with a flash car, big house, big reputation and good looking. He is well known in the community and lots of people look up to him. He told me he hadn't had a girlfriend in 3 years. There is an issue with an ex who has a restraining order on him for harassment. He flirted and I think dated another woman recently as it was all over his facebook. I didnt react. I have asked him on many occasions to let me just get on with my life but he keeps coming back. He promised to take me out 10 days ago but I have heard nothing since. I am going to stick to it this time - no contact. He lives on his own and is still on dating sites. I don't think he goes out with women very often though it just seems to be flirting most of the time. I don't think he likes to have sex very often. I think the thrill of the chase is more what he likes. On facebook it looks like he has let another lady down also. Do you think he sounds like a player or a narcissist.