Do the have ESP?

I would not normally buy into that but I gotta tell ya I have a strange story regarding that. As many of you know I reconnected with mine after 15 years. Right before I reconnected with him, I was out with work friends for a drink and we all began to talk about past relationships and different random life events. I began to discuss the N. I really hadnt thought or discussed the N in years. A few weeks later out of the blue I decide to get on fb. So we reconnect but here's the weirder part, We both opened fb accounts within days of eachother! So freakin weird. Regarding the phone calls I definitely think they can sense when you are drifting away from them hence the hoover. Somone mentioned or maybe I read some where that since they are basically lacking a soul, that all of their others senses become heightened which is exactly how they are able to say and do all of the right things in the beginning to make you think that they are your soulmate. They are able to fill your every need in the beginning because they can sense what your needs are and what makes you tick.

I believe wholeheartedly, it was him. they can sense when you are missing them, they just want to know, in case, you are still there. he might be needing your supply. my hN always knows when im sick to my stomach, wondering about him. he'll text and call pretending its about the bills at the house, but then he starts the I miss you mommy, wish i were there, wish you never threw me out. he knows that kills me inside, but it gives him the supply he is lacking or needing at the moment. trust all the women here, they know, it was him. be strong, dont be weak like me......jaycee

they have psychic chords and can sense when you are putting your energy into them...imagine a big scissors and cut that chord!! they are so pathetic, tyring to always juggle X's for supply, always searching for fresh supply...i had an unknown call last week, no message..it was him too..even that, set me back..like this has done to you..XN didn't see the value in you, NOW he does..TOO LATE...you will find a relationship with someone who values you from the start...the N will not EVER be able to do this..because as we know, "it's all about him!!" Keep staying NC, you're doing great, and are learning alot about yourself and about these crazy making personalities..step aside from their drama and observe them from the outside...today is your day..it's all about YOU!

I thought the same and still do actually but i guess it doesnt matter as im not ever going to know if i dont answer right? And as usual I dont. I like what sick of it said; "Orginal Me its not that he wanted to speak to you it is that he wants to know that he has access to you if he needs to." Spot on girl, spot on! xoxo only one way to go...Forward (tm?)

I don't think so! The same thing happened to me last week. I got and unknown call. I NEVER get those on my cell. Orginal Me its not that he wanted to speak to you it is that he wants to know that he has access to you if he needs to. I dont know your situation but with mine I mentioned a few times about him blocking me from his phone and vice versa. Neither of us ever did it though. Well since I have gone NC suddenly last Friday I got an unknown call. I dont get those nor did I get another. If it was a solictor or something like that they call back or leave a voice mail because the goal is to speak with you. In their case they do this to make you wonder if it was them yet you cant prove it. They do it hoping you will text that way they get to save face and they get their supply without having to talk to you. Years ago (round 1) with this man long before texting, this guy would call my apartment late at night and hang up. Star 69 had just been made available but he didnt know that so I would wait until morning and say did you call me last night? someone called and hung up on me. His Response: Now why would I do that (in very sarcastic tone) I would hang up with a huge grin on my face BUSTED! So Orginal Me I guarantee you It was him. They just want to make sure that they can get to you if they need you. Right now your classified as emergency back up supply

Unless you suspect a debt collector is calling you, it most likely is your ex. Funny that they use blocked numbers - I've read that here alot on other postings. I've had the same thing happen over the years with my exN. Freaky thing. I definitely believe that there's a certain "wavelength" that we find in common with people we connect to at that level. It happens to me not only with the exN but also with my children and other family members. I think your instincts are probably telling you that it was him and perhaps that's why you didn't take the calls (good for you). Interesting also that there were no voice mails. I'm impressed with your commitment to NC - you're my role model. :)

People suffering from personality disorders are lacking skills in the affective area but like blind people have other senses more developed they develop instinct instead. I don't know if it is clear.....they are disordered inside and they do not know what feelings are. For them there is no difference between good and bad, black or white. But probably because of this enormous mass of unresolved things inside them , they have more developed the "animal" area. This is why they read body language perfectly. They did not attend a course, like the agents of FBI, but they know. How do they spot us, the children of other narcs and disordered people, in the crowd? they "know" they use their instinct. they are more animal than us. That's it.

I swear they know , they deal in energy (supply) and i dont recon that stops just because you are not in the same room as them ... creepy ..We need to block the energy which comes when we think about them all the time .. not sure how to do that yet but im working on it xx

but I believe that energy is a mysterious thing and that if you were thinking about him at some level he may have felt it. Or vice versa. How often have you been about to call someone and they call or email you right then?