What have you learned from this?
What have you learned from this?
Been wanting to solicit answers to this question for a while. I wasn't active on here before because I'm quite certain my ex had been keylogging EVERYTHING I ever wrote, and maybe still is, but now I figure...WTF. Oh well...
SO, the big question is: What lessons have you learned from your experience?
I know I have learned so much and I may post my own answers in bits and pieces, but the main things I learned are:
-Likability does not mean trustworthiness.
-If you catch someone in lies early on, that means he/she is a LIAR.
-If you deeply suspect that something is fishy and have clues to back it up but he tells you to your face that you are wrong, trust yourself. You are not wrong. You are being gaslighted.
-When someone tells you what they are, LISTEN to them. Eg. "I am a bullshitter."
-If their phone "doesn't work" half the time, they're hiding something.
Okay, that's a start.
I think that learning from our experiences is very valuable, so let's share...
So many good lessons
what I learned
i learned that:
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"dont let yesterday take up too much of today"
What I learned
I learned..
To not loose myself in a
Ending the dance
Great advice!
Good one! Sooooo important.
Great discussion thread, Girlfriday!
good question
:)
me too. lol
only one way to go...Forward (tm?)
I learned to fork over the
only one way to go...Forward (tm?)
What I learned....
Believe what your gut is telling you.
learned
Aceonelady
Yes. Aceonelady!
Mine said he couldn't call
Great idea!
Exactly !!
What I have learned