Is this stalking?

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#1 Jun 25 - 9PM
herlatestvictim
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Is this stalking?

An ex-N, who I have had NO CONTACT with for 4 years, calls me at work (the only number ex-N has for me, I changed my home and cell numbers 4 years ago), and plays songs with love lyrics on my voice mail. The longest time in between calls is 3 months. I have received 2 calls this week.

IT'S BEEN 4 YEARS OF NO CONTACT ON MY PART!

I am disgusted and want to scream every time I get a new song. I want to be left alone! I refuse to be afraid. I refuse to make any contact. Something tells me that I should be concerned. Is this stalking? It's just attention seeking, right?

4 years ago this sicko WAS sitting outside my home. That was clearly stalking. One day I politely walked to the car and said please leave me alone, we will never be friends, I am not angry but I want you to go away. It worked! Well, except for the stupid musical messages!

What to do?

Jun 29 - 7AM
murphyagnes (not verified)
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Report It

Jun 25 - 11PM
Learningthehardway
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But wow, FOUR YEARS?????

Jun 25 - 11PM (Reply to #7)
herlatestvictim
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she never stopped

Jun 26 - 8AM (Reply to #9)
ziggy
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Its just

Jun 25 - 11PM (Reply to #8)
Learningthehardway
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Now THAT'S funny....

Jun 25 - 9PM
Learningthehardway
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You've got to ignore....

Jun 25 - 10PM (Reply to #2)
herlatestvictim
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i left her

Jun 25 - 11PM (Reply to #3)
Learningthehardway
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Sounds like Jodi Arias....

Jun 25 - 11PM (Reply to #4)
herlatestvictim
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lol- i should clarify

Jun 25 - 11PM (Reply to #5)
Learningthehardway
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there ya go, honey!