I'm a mess

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#1 Oct 2 - 8PM
letting go
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I'm a mess

My aunt who I have confided in for many years is angry at me. I don't know why. She is not the type to get angry at me and I don't know what I have done. My other aunt who lives with her said to me to have a think about it and then you'll know why. But I honestly can't.

The only thing I can think of is yesterday she ganged up on me with others while out in public having lunch about him. I was about to burst into tears and had to get up and go to the bathroom to cry. I didn't say 'excuse me', I just calmly stood up and walked away into the bathroom for about five or so minutes then came back. She didn't talk to me then said she had to go and didn't look at me and didn't say bye. Usually she hugs me.

I am extra stressed and anxious now because if I have done something to her for her to do that to me and I don't know what it is that I did, then maybe I really did do something to my ex too and don't know what and he took offense and was hurt and gave me the silent treatment because of that and now that he has someone else doesn't need worry about it anymore and has no use for me.

I am so upset.

Oct 3 - 5AM
evergreen
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just a question?

Oct 3 - 5AM (Reply to #27)
Goldie
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I have some time on Thursday

Oct 4 - 4PM (Reply to #29)
letting go
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About to pm you.

Oct 3 - 6AM (Reply to #28)
IncognitoBurrito
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^^^^

Oct 3 - 5AM
evergreen
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I do not reply to your posts

Oct 4 - 4PM (Reply to #25)
letting go
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Thank you. I called my aunt

Oct 4 - 4PM (Reply to #24)
letting go
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That's how I feel very much,

Oct 3 - 5AM
Deidre99
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Take this for what it's

Oct 3 - 5AM (Reply to #18)
Used
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deidre

Oct 4 - 4PM (Reply to #22)
letting go
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I was NOT speaking to my aunt

Oct 3 - 6AM (Reply to #19)
Deidre99
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ahhh, ok...i see. thanks

Oct 3 - 7AM (Reply to #20)
Goldie
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Yes and just because SOMEONE is angry with us.......

Oct 4 - 4PM (Reply to #21)
letting go
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Yes I understand all that but

Oct 3 - 5AM (Reply to #17)
letting go
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That's how I feel too and I

Oct 3 - 3AM
Very happy girl
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Sounds like

Oct 3 - 4AM (Reply to #13)
letting go
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Thanks. I tried calling her

Oct 3 - 6AM (Reply to #15)
Very happy girl
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Aunt

Oct 3 - 5AM (Reply to #14)
Hunter
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Is this about your Aunt or

Oct 3 - 3AM
Hunter
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It seems to me that people

Oct 3 - 4AM (Reply to #10)
letting go
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I was not even talking about

Oct 3 - 4AM (Reply to #11)
letting go
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Also, I did not get a chance

Oct 2 - 8PM
kollontai77
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.

Oct 2 - 10PM (Reply to #2)
letting go
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That's the thing though, I

Oct 3 - 4AM (Reply to #3)
Goldie
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Hi LG, what does this mean?

Oct 4 - 4PM (Reply to #7)
letting go
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She found out that I had

Oct 5 - 3AM (Reply to #8)
Hunter
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I thought you didn't discuss

Oct 3 - 5AM (Reply to #4)
florence (not verified)
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V confusing...

Oct 4 - 4PM (Reply to #5)
letting go
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Thanks. I see a counseller

Oct 4 - 5PM (Reply to #6)
tryingtorecover
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letting go, turn off your phone