NC makes your like better

So I am in a getting hoovered mode after 2 years NC.
I am not feeling flattered as you may have read in another post

Looking at it emotionally,it may feel like I am finjally validated as a real person who really exists.

Looking at it logically I am wondering why bother?

Because since the N has left my life:

I have a better life overall, including a new job that I just love
New hobbies and friends to go with those
Better boundaries with people overall, including my family members and a culling of old user "friends"
Better status in my home town
My son's school report was amazing this year and his behaviour at school has just improved 300%
He has now just given me other reasons to be very very proud in other areas of life.

He is an empath like me. We have culled him own toxic little buddies off as well and we are now much happier.

Above all, no drama, no other women, no jealousy, no arguments, no questioning, notr having my mind constantly on overdrive trying to figure him out, not playing games, not spending my time being angry on a large spectrum with midly angry being the default mode on a good day .

NC changes your life for the better.