To those here who have kids with their ex N's

I just wanted to say...YOU ARE ALL SO UNBELIEVEABLY AWESOME. SERIOUSLY!

I read the stories on here from time to time, of some of you who share child custody with your ex N's, and you are inspiring beyond belief. You are far stronger than you give yourselves credit for.

To have to deal with these people long after the breakup is through, with grace and poise that you all seem to possess--is just astounding to me. I had a very shortlived relationship with my ex N, and the narc before him. I thought my journey was painful, but it's a drop in the bucket as to what some of you are dealing with on a daily basis, with your exes.

I can't imagine what you all must go through, yet you do it with grace, and class. Your kids are blessed to have you all as parents!

I just wanted to give you all a special thread today, to let you know...your hard work is commendable. Treat yourselves well. You are remarkable, and know that your kids see your strength and grace, too...

You're shining examples for them!

STAY STRONG, and continue to be brave. Big hugs from me. :)