Help for Hunter

There are so many handsome TALL guys in Germany.... look up not down ;)

So? All you have to do is remember Hitler was the greatest narc of all time. That'll get your mind off that azz.

Little garden gnomes! How funny to be reading all the way down through the posts and see a banner ad for gnomes! Interesting what the browser cookies pick up on! Maybe you should buy one, Hunter. As a souvenir. :) Be strong and don't let the triggers interfere with your fun. You know better, and when you know better, you do better. Hope you are able to laugh it off and enjoy your vacation. (((hugs)))

Bald is not beautiful and either is nasty! Stay away from the short bald trolls! Focus on having fun and think how stupid he is if you get triggered. :-)

Get the bastard bitch outta ur thoughts, picture em all in leiderhosen. Hmmm not sexayyy to me! :) Enjoy ur time!

The ex-N was 100% German as well! Blue eyes...he talked about how everyone in his family were such controllers. My exHN was Peruvian, def Narc but also bipolar. There's no figuring these guys out! have a good time, anyway!

My Narc is German as well, with green eyes, and even though he is only 30, he is aready showing signs of premature receeding forehead. He will be quite bald by the age of 40, like his dad. I love the gnome comment. HA HA HA, cracks me up. They are also arrogant little fucks, so it must be a trip to have to look at a whole bunch of bald, gnome, arrogant little fockers running around all in one place. Makes you just want to scream and get out a paint ball gun and shoot them with a big ball of blonde or black painted hair on their bald little heads and watch it drip all over their arrogant little pea brains and face and say: There you go, here is some fake hair for your fake head and your fack personality and when a heavy rain comes along it will all wash away and everyone can see you for the fake little gnome freaks that you really are. Because you can already see them for what they are, it must be torture for you hon. Just see them as the fake little phoney's they are and maybe that will help. You will be home soon and not have to look at them anymore. God bless, Hunter, you are in my thoughts and you always make me smile when I need it the most. These definitions of the phoney are just like the Narc, a phoney bastard: phoney esp US 1. not genuine; fake 2. (of a person) insincere or pretentious n pl -neys, -nies 1. an insincere or pretentious person 2. something that is not genuine; a fake [origin uncertain] phoneyness esp US, phoniness n Collins English Dictionary – Complete and Unabridged © HarperCollins Publishers 1991, 1994, 1998, 2000, 2003 ThesaurusLegend: Synonyms Related Words Antonyms Noun 1. phoney - a person who professes beliefs and opinions that he or she does not hold in order to conceal his or her real feelings or motives dissembler, dissimulator, hypocrite, phony, pretender beguiler, cheater, deceiver, trickster, slicker, cheat - someone who leads you to believe something that is not true charmer, smoothie, smoothy, sweet talker - someone with an assured and ingratiating manner Tartufe, Tartuffe - a hypocrite who pretends to religious piety (after the protagonist in a play by Moliere) whited sepulcher, whited sepulchre - a person who is inwardly evil but outwardly professes to be virtuous Adj. 1. phoney - fraudulent; having a misleading appearance bastard, bogus, fake, phony counterfeit, imitative - not genuine; imitating something superior; "counterfeit emotion"; "counterfeit money"; "counterfeit works of art"; "a counterfeit prince" phoney (Informal) adjective 1. fake, affected, assumed, trick, put-on, false, forged, imitation, sham, pseudo (informal), counterfeit, feigned, spurious He used a phoney accent. fake real, original, genuine, authentic, sincere, unaffected, bona fide, dinkum (Austral & N.Z. informal), unfeigned, unassumed 2. bogus, false, fake, pseudo (informal), ersatz phoney `experts' noun 1. faker, fraud, fake, pretender, humbug, impostor, pseud (informal) He was a liar, a cheat, and a phoney. 2. fake, sham, forgery, counterfeit This passport is a phoney. Collins Thesaurus of the English Language – Complete and Unabridged 2nd Edition. 2002 © HarperCollins Publishers 1995, 2002 I especially like this one: "a counterfeit prince" yup, that's what they are a sham. Goldie

Think of them as hard boiled eggs while you're there instead of scrambled.

Hunter girl! I feel for you. Psycho freak shaved his head too and I totally get the creep-out gnome factor. Good news is he's not there and you are! In a great place with a great husband and great friends and...as Michele so wisely points out, great beer! Have fun and be safe. I miss your humorous posts...even though you're being triggered, this one is quite funny, too! Hang in there warrior woman! Love, (not) spinning. NEVER EVER AGAIN!

I guess I should be glad I live in a suburban area of the East Coast where it is predominantly white, as my exN is Hispanic, and I don't see anyone remotely like him in my county. My sister has commented when she visits that I live in the whitest community she's ever seen, and it's shockingly true when you look around. I grew up with a much more eclectic mix of races being raised in the Southwest and then Southern Cal. This just proves that I'm not ready to take a trip back to my hometown to visit my friends, because everything and a lot of men would be a trigger. The area I used to live in is predominantly Hispanic. And then there's the real potential I could actually run into HIM! Ugh.... I hate these FUCKERS!

I hear they have great beer...look on the bright side...I hope you enjoy your trip. Hugs!

Gnome alert!!! Time to play Whack-a-Gnome! :) This is why you'll never catch me buying a seat at any future Charlie Sheen Torpedo of Truth tours. Not that I would *anyway* but seriously, I can't even look at a picture of the guy. Not only does CharlieSheenWinning have the same attitude (hence the nickname), he has adopted ole Charlie's facial expressions and mannerisms. Say it with me now: WINNING!!!! Visual triggers suck. Just imagine playing Whack-a-Gnome and, like someone else said, take full advantage of the beer gardens. Take in the full non-gnome scenery. {hugs}

I FEEL FOR YOU.. EVERYTIME I SEE A LITTLE BALDHEADED FAT MAN I COULD SCREAM....THERE ARE HUNDREDS AND HUNDREDS OF THEM....I ALWAYS TOLD NARC HE WAS COMMON.

funny how scrambled eggs can look like so many different things. Packaging can be confusing, but a narc is a narc. You are an inspiritation to us here, stay safe, don't miss an enjoyable moment because of the damage inflicted long ago by a narcfish assclown. enjoy the trip, take pics, and give yourself a great holiday, you deserve it!

Hope you coping OK.... I would have the same reservations about going anywhere near Greece to be honest, it's like a trigger we could really be doing with.... I am very very short so the germans are giants in comparison LOL. but mine was gnome also, by any woman of normal height's standard....but blond blue eyed, well yes, you would expect that here... I hear Hitler was very short.... sorry, bad taste.... Keep the strength Hunter, you'll come back from Germany stronger and wiser.... stay close to the beer gardens and enjoy!!! the time goes faster LOL Dx

That's gotta be tough for you Hunter.........and very hard to ignore. Keep busy, stay focused and just remember all the bad things. Beat a few gnomes while there if you need to! Hang tight! :)