Hoarding

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#1 May 18 - 8PM
desperatelyseek...
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Hoarding

So I've been reading up on NPD, and one of the psychology books I read mentioned hoarding as a common feature of narcissistic behavior. Mine, for instance, hoards DVDs. He has literally hundreds of them in his basement, and hasn't even watched half of them once!

Just wondering if anyone else out there has a hoarder on their hands...

May 19 - 11AM
Lobo555
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Mine Only Hoards Supply

That was a joke, but now I'm thinking about it -- I think I'm kind of serious! Also, mine is going through a big purge rather than hoarding. Gave away or sold most of his possessions. Sold his home so had no place to live and was crashing on a friend's couch. Met up with a woman and married her after 3 weeks of knowing her. Now I guess her casa and her stuff is his. ????
May 19 - 8AM
janine
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Nothing is ever enough

Mine hoardes - money (to waste huge amounts on crazy projects or to burn bank notes like 500€ once)) - anything made of plastic, cups, plates from the take- away, boxes (And I mean DOZENS) - any freebie he can get - old clothes from relatives, he wears them on top of each other in winter to save on heating - phone numbers of women he's had or might have for sex - mobile phones, because he MUST be available to the above and anyone who might offer attention, money, supply
May 19 - 7AM
onwithmylife
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My EXNARC

was not a hoarder per se but constantly bought things he did not really need or have room for, maybe that is a hoarder but his place was neat and tidy.
May 18 - 11PM
mynewlife2011
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Almighty Dollar

My ExNH does not have an attachment to any object nor person, only money. I was always surprsied when he would split and leave so much of his crap behind. He has a way of just cutting EVERYTHING out of his life. Except the almighty dollar (of course.) F-ing bastard d-ckhead
May 19 - 8AM (Reply to #6)
findingmeagain
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oh i thought they do that

oh i thought they do that when they want a reason to come back to hoover at any time.
May 18 - 9PM
stephanie
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my ex husband is a

my ex husband is a hoarder...bad.....ex N is an organized hoarder...kept everything he ever had but its not messy, very organized and labeled. has over a thousand dvds...
May 18 - 8PM
findingmeagain
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YESSSS!!!

First off hoarding is a sign of a mental illness period. But yes when he left i was so glad all that crap was gone he hoards alot of shyt nothing in particular he just hoards. some of his shyt is still here under my bed!
May 18 - 8PM
Hunter
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HAHAHAH

Mine hoardes time with his mother. SICK!!!!!! Hunter
May 19 - 12AM (Reply to #2)
freedomgirl
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Mine used to hoard food. He

Mine used to hoard food. He was always at the supermarket buying shit he had brought a few days before. Always had multiple packets of the same thing incase he ran out. Christ the shop is only down the road. His grocery bill was always extremely high. He was a labeler as well. Loved to print out labels on everything. Get a life!