My marriage therapist says my husband has OCPD and Narcissitic Personality disorder. After reading your site and other sites, I don't see it. He can be very selfish and self centered at times but he is not abusive the way you describe in this forum.
He is passive aggressive and has a superior way about him but he is also extremely generous and kind. He gets mean when you try and talk relationship issues and he can't handle emotions but he is nice all other times. He is definitely self absorbed and focused on hisself first an he is not as giving as me but he is not an ass. He can be an ass but he can be a nice guy too. He is very successful and very well liked. He is loved by everyone. He is very humble too. Help me understand. Can he have a minor case?
Also I don't want to leave him so your steps don't work for me.
Any advice will be appreciated.
This might or might not help.
Hi 4siegle