Oops he did it again

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#1 June 8, 2009 - 7:19pm
Anonymous (not verified)
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Oops he did it again

Today marks the 11th month anniversary of the day that changed my whole life around. Today 11 months ago I was sitting in a Miami hotel, overlooking the bay, still dazed and confused by what I had just read.

But today is a special day. For he has done to her, the new ex gf, what he did to me. Confirming that he is a pathological makes me feel blessed that I got out when I did. This is the new ex's blog:

http://patrickderover.blogspot.com/

June 9, 2009 - 8:41am
Barbara (not verified)
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Jane

I wasn't insinuating anything. Just wondering if HE made that blog. if he did - that post makes it look like either 1. he is looking for sympathy or 2. is proud of what he did... which is really sick. You are 110% right on all counts about this creep. ~~~~~~~~~~~~ Free articles & information for abuse victims: http://abusesanctuary.blogspot.com Effective Coaching for Victims of Pathologicals http://one2one4victims.webs.com/
June 9, 2009 - 12:46am
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Proof that they will do the same to the next woman

Jane - Wow, you must feel vindicated. Of course, I feel sorry for the woman involved, but knowing that he did the exact same thing to the next women really helps everyone see this is their pattern. It has nothing to do with you. None of us are to blame, nor could we have done anything different to save the relationship. A Narcissist's retreat and deceit is inevitable. Jane's guy did the exact same thing to another women in less than a year of their relationship ending!
June 9, 2009 - 1:43am (Reply to #6)
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Lisa

He was involved with at least two more girls that I know of, before this one, over a short period of time. So he probably did it to them too. Only one of them may be pathological as well - she was one of the girls he cheated on me with, YET she kept taking him back over and over again. She's still in his life now! Sad ain't it? Well I'm glad I got out when I did. It may have taken me a few months to get here, but I'm so much stronger because of this experience. So yeah, I guess I want to let other people that are going through this: yes there is light at the end of the tunnel. You just have to keep walking headstrong in that direction. Jane http://sadlynomore.blogspot.com
June 8, 2009 - 9:46pm
quietude (not verified)
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wow

That is just wild to see this type of blatant evidence! How many of us have worried ourselves sick about this very subject?? There you go!
June 9, 2009 - 2:05am (Reply to #4)
Jane (not verified)
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Quietude

Yep, they will NEVER change. They will do the same thing to their new gullible gfs/wives over again. Look at it from this point of view: at least we've gained the rest of our lives back. I truely believe that life is what you make it and that only you can make good things happen in your life. I don't feel ANYTHING for my ex. There is nothing left for him here. He is just another statistic in my life that I have consciously chosen to feel completely indifferent to. Jane http://sadlynomore.blogspot.com
June 8, 2009 - 9:36pm
Barbara (not verified)
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oy

did he post that to get sympathy or to make the other girl feel bad? As you can see, they do the same over & over & over again - sometimes in very short order - sometimes it takes a while. But it does happen. Glad you got the validation you deserved! ~~~~~~~~~~~~ Free articles & information for abuse victims: http://abusesanctuary.blogspot.com Effective Coaching for Victims of Pathologicals http://one2one4victims.webs.com/
June 9, 2009 - 1:55am (Reply to #2)
Jane (not verified)
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Barbara

What are you insinuating? That he created a blog to undermine himself? No, it's not his style. His style is seduce, use, and move on. Fast. Funny how I can read him like a book in retrospect. In away, it is thanks to him that I am now armed to spot a Peter Pan from miles away. I just hope that the girls from Atlanta, GA and nationwide USA, can see right through his glitter. He is a ticking timebomb in so many ways. In Malta we have a saying that goes like this: "Iz-zejt dejjem jitla f'wicc l-ilma" - which translates literally to "the oil always resurfaces above water"... The equivalent in english would probably be: What walks and quacks like a duck, is a duck. In time, they always reveal their true colours. Jane http://sadlynomore.blogspot.com