I was with my narc for awhile (not realzing what he was) and then after many ugly situations and this site I figured out what was going on, Then he had me (finally because at this point I didn't believe a word he said ) believeing he had me convinced he had this terrible disease and it didn't occur to me until the other day he called to ask me what made me believe him. Then it kicked in my brain he wanted to know what was working, so I called him out on his lies and said he was most likely practing in the mirror and pointed out of few mistakes-I researched the condition. Once you totally bust them do they still try to come back ?
Yes, They go away when you
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