What comes after the smearing campaign? What's next?

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#1 Feb 4 - 9PM
Truthishere
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What comes after the smearing campaign? What's next?

After serval years I finally decided to end it with my N, I found out he was cheating on me. It quickly went from him cheating to him falsely accusing me of cheating. So now that I have chosen to end this because of something he did I find myself being bullied. He is going around telling whoever he can including my family and friends that he caught me having an affair. It's gotten out of control. I am letting him get it out of his system because I have read that there is just no winning with a N. My family is aware of him having a personality disorder. They see how insane he is and sounds. So for those of you who have been through this, what can I expect next? Is this the final stage? I know he's trying to ensure everyone around him that it was me, not him, and that he's a victim. I am fine with that. I just want it to all end. We do not have any ties, no children together. What happens next? Thank you for all the guidance.

Feb 21 - 3PM
allstar
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Not sure what comes next

Feb 14 - 2AM
shock and awe.some
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Hey truthishere

Feb 5 - 9AM
betterforit
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I can relate to this. I

Feb 5 - 8AM
Lookforward
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He is constructing a smoke

Feb 5 - 6AM
Janie53
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The only person you can control is yourself!