narcissistic Injury
narcissistic Injury
Hello all,
Went to my therapist today and told her about my STBXNH taking GF to mom's house for her birthday. Therapist told me not to try to understand this other than as a narcissistic injury. Because last weekend I told him I still wanted a divorce and that I no longer love him or respect him. I was so confused how one weekend he could declare his love and want a reconciliation, and tell me that the GF means nothing, and the following weekend while walking out the door after dropping off my sons he can tell me he is going to bring GF home to meet his mom.
It is so hard to understand the behavior, and I know not to try to understand it. "But therapist mentioned the bringing GF home as a way he is dealing with his narcissitic injury. She said he was a sick man, not to be surprised, and to keep my distance. Can someone please shed light on how this is a reaction to a narcissitic injury/
You have loyalty, standards,
Thanks Carolyn
injury
could it also be the loss of
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Mallory