Today I feel like a good RANT!

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#1 April 14, 2009 - 2:32pm
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Today I feel like a good RANT!

Some days, I'd just love to sit my N down and shout....scream....yell about ALL of the terrible things he did to me, and how badly he effected my life!

First I'd say: YOU IDIOT! You're a damn Narcissist and you don't even know it! Here's a PLETHORA OF BOOKS about it, start readying about yourself, baby!

Then I'd say: STOP freaking crying in voicemails, trying to make ME feel guilty for not contacting you! Stop trying to put the ball in my court making me look like the terrible hearless person when that person is actually YOU!

Arrrrrgggg! Okay, I feel better. :)

April 14, 2009 - 11:21pm
Lisa E. Scott
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Quietude

Oh, I know, don't they make it hard? As if we're not in enough pain dealing with our own grief over the death of the relationship, they have to make it harder by calling and making us feel horribly guilty. It's gut-wrenching, isn't it?
April 14, 2009 - 3:12pm
Barbara (not verified)
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you know

he won't get it. I actually tried that with exNH - he projected it all back on me. BLOCK BLOCK his emails & IMs let the machine answer his calls and ERASE WITHOUT LISTENING erase Texts without reading He wants a reaction. He wants free rent in your head. Don't give it to him. That will chap his hide. Right now he's playing games... screw that. Tell him to talk to your lawyer ONLY. ~~~~~~~~~~~~ Coaching for Victims of Pathologicals http://one2one4victims.webs.com/
April 14, 2009 - 3:26pm (Reply to #2)
quietude (not verified)
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oh ya...

I know...it's just fantasy venting, stuff we'd love to say but won't, cant, shouldn't...etc :)
April 14, 2009 - 3:41pm (Reply to #3)
Barbara (not verified)
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yeah

I wanted to tell Psycho-Boy the pain and illness he caused me. It tooks months for it to sink in that he does NOT care. How sick is that? To not CARE that you are harming someone. That's what they are. ~~~~~~~~~~~~ Coaching for Victims of Pathologicals http://one2one4victims.webs.com/