Thanks so much for sharing this email. I can so identify with it when I was attacked too. Someone once wrote on a blog/forum that I visited that if you give them enough rope they always hang themselves. So I tried that once and yes, it does work.
Their ego are their own worst enemies and always gets the best of them. But I also got tired of all the uncivilized language and would stop replying. I tried warning others the knew her, didn’t work. The only thing that works is NC but don’t expect this to stop the email posts or anything they might do to try to get a rise out of you.
Funny but sometimes I will read all these post from my personal attacker on my blog and I laugh and laugh whenever I do so. Some call them the “people of the lieâ€, I agree but add my own personal touch and call them “people of the hateâ€.
*Warning uncivilized language*
http://james-personalitydisorder.blogspot.com/2009/02/they-have-friends-dont-they.html
Jane,
I know we have different situations but for me. One of the reason I started my blog is to get my day in court. My ex broke the law many times and these issues need to be address. Plus until I am taken to court I can’t get some of her records because we were never married. Once I go to court I can get these records open up to prove my case in court. So I wait for my day in court. As you see my blog is nothing short then a reality show. No hidden names other then children who need to be protected. So for me, I wait patiently wait for my day in court
http://james-personalitydisorder.blogspot.com/
that's funny James
Psycho-Boy and his wife have threatened to take me to court for harassment, defamation, slander...
I have told them to PLEASE BRING IT ON!! PLEASE TAKE ME TO COURT... and guess what? Nothing! And we know why, don't we?
Because once these psychos take us to court - all the information on THEM comes out and becomes COURT RECORD - all their sub-criminal acts become record. It's all out then... and they can no longer lie & revise history.
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STAND UP FOR YOURSELF AND KEEP EVERYTHING AS IT IS.
in fact - I would take that email and POST IT ON YOUR BLOG and link to other blogs like mine & James' that show how we get harassed when we stand up for ourselves.
And post some of those legal links I gave you before.
your sister means well but is DEAD WRONG. You will not be helping yourself or anyone else by not speaking out and taking back your dignity & power.
BTW - I notice he took HIS personal blog down. BOO HOO!!!
Barbara, it wasn't his personal blog, but a blog written by his latest ex... She took it down because he was blackmailing her.
Jane
http://sadlynomore.blogspot.com
so he obviously thinks he has power.
Time to show him what a petty tyrant and emotional terrorist he is.
He's trying this:
http://abusesanctuary.blogspot.com/2009/07/how-narcissist-trains-his-victims.html
THERE IS NO APPEASING A TERRORIST.
(3 years ago I ran around writing sites and trying to get them to take down stuff on Psycho-Boy. I was only successful with 2 of about 15... because I WASN'T THE ONE WHO POSTED IT but I got all his blame. You know what? It just made him STEP UP HIS HARASSMENT OF ME. That's when I opened my blog about him... enough was enough.)
Post that email!! NEVER NEGOTIATE WITH A TERRORIST.
And here;s a good article to post on your blog too:
http://narc-attack.blogspot.com/2008/03/poor-narcissist-feels-threatened.html
You're cutting into his ability to prey on others. BOO FLIPPING HOO - you're doing a public service... any overt harassment? death threats? I'll help you deal with those...
That jerk needs someone to put a wrench in his abuse. STAND UP JANE - and take back your dignity!
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People of the Hate
Day in Court
day in court
Jane
Barbara, it wasn't his
Jane