So hitting delete doesn't come without its fallout, as some of you have experienced. This afternoon, he came right up behind me, from out of nowhere, on the OTHER side of the school where I've been meeting my daughters to avoid him and whispered in my ear, "I'm happy."
After I almost peed in my pants and jumped out of my skin, I thought of Susan and said, "That is the best news I have heard all day" and walked away with a smile to my girls.
Dick.
Oh for crying out loud ..."im happy" .... "dont respond " ... what is this guy 6 years old .. He might just as well be dancing infrount of you saying "look at me look at me ".. they hate being .. you know what i would say to a 6 year old who was acting like this "stop showing off"
good for you girl. I would have been tempted to save it for proof but I think you needed to hit that delete button so bad and you did. good for you. Next step, hard as it can be, delete before reading. I haven't managed it yet so can't expect you to either, but wouldn't that be something?
What a typical prick. Guess he hasn't had enough of the drama but I hope to God you have. sometimes I think they love it because they are so bored with themselves.
almostlydia
Good for you helldweller, you are the bomb, wish i had your balls, i would love to hit delete......and never respond again....i tried it sunday, and he showed up at my back door, ma ma you ok, i texted and there was no answer, i was so worried, yeah right, worried, he had to see if i had someone here, like i would ever, im not him, im not interested in having someone right now, ive had enough of his bullshit. i need a break from men....lol Jaycee
When I'm doing better, I'm gonna put some money aside, and if I have to take a collection on here I will...and instead of a delete button hun, we're gonna get you a stun gun for the Narc!...Every time he opens his mouth you pull that trigger!...No, every time he breathes, just pull the trigger. Narcs like him need more aggressive methods of training...LMAO!...
Keep your chin up girl, I read your posts today, you're sounding stronger and I am sooo happy to see that.
Hugs to you!
Will Narcs ever cease to amaze me? They can communicate more control and gaslighting and manipulation into fewer words than seems possible.
Amen, Helldweller :D Drop that bitch in the trash :) That's where disgusting wankstain texts from him belong :)
My exN is so crazy that even after deleting his emails and ignoring him, he created a bogus email.. said it was from my boyfriend to my exN and showed everyone.
The email was full of threatening vulgar language. It is amazing at what lows the N will go to in order to keep the control.
My exN even showed my kids this fake email to show my kids how MEAN my boyfriend is.
I dont think the exN will ever leave me alone.
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The fallout of "delete," girls . . .
Oh for crying out loud
good for you girl. I would
almostlydia
wish i had your balls
Jaycee
Jaycee
Will Narcs ever cease to
What a twat this narc is ,
cool
DELETE
delete
GO Helldweller!
helldweller
beautiful used!
I salute you Helldweller
crazy
Newgal,