Tell me his birthdate, i am serious.

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Jan 30 - 3PM
Susan32
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He was a Virgo, I'm a Taurus

Again, very different signs. My reigning planet is Venus (the goddess of love);his is Mercury (the god of language, lies, the marketplace, guide to the underworld). The ex-Psych professor's birthday is September 14th. It turns out that with my sign, the sun is in Taurus but the Earth is in Scorpio. Scorpio is also associated with romantic love. The symbol for Virgo is an inward pointing sign. There's even a website about Narcs being Virgos.
Jan 30 - 1PM
venuslovedpluto
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Birth month

My ex was born in May, he's a Taurus. I was born in August though, I'm a Virgo. Maybe I'm the psychopath and am mirroring? Nah. I don't think so. He just sent me a text, asking me if I'd like to come over for a foot massage. As if. But nice, he says that to me knowing that I hate massages. Because my stepdad used to abuse me that way. With massages. How charming. I was so offended by this message (that I should have deleted) that I lost control and went off on him. Telling him that he can't hurt me anymore, if that's the point with such a creepy question. Then I told him; "trying to shit on a sensitive human being when you yourself don't have at all the same type of feelings/wiring is like taking shots at a naked person while you stand safely away, wrapped in a bulletproof vest. What's so powerful about that?" Nice balls, Narc. I'm deleting anything else I get. But am sitting here feeling like crap for giving him the time of day and with that. Aaarrrggghhhh I know I'm giving him this power by allowing his words into my orbit but I want it different, I want it to not feel so messy and awful and I guess that's why I looked. He's sick. It's not gonna change. And by berating or belittling him I just look like a moron and give him more attention. And power. Lol awesome. This one wasn't born in August. But was conceived in August. Hope it's ok that I've written this here. It just kind of came out =(