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Blaming you = Manipulation, which = Control, which = getting their way

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#1 Apr 27 - 5AM
Goldie
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Blaming you = Manipulation, which = Control, which = getting their way

What do you feel, think, or do when the Narc blames you for something?

xoxoxo,
Goldie

Jun 7 - 4PM
Emotionalroller...
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Controlling is what it WAS

Jun 7 - 3PM
Juliette
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GUILT - my go-to emotion.

Jun 7 - 3PM (Reply to #32)
spinning
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Oh my, Juliette!!

spinning

Jun 7 - 4PM (Reply to #33)
Juliette
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Spinning, YOU were so instrumental in my getting out!

Jun 7 - 4PM (Reply to #34)
Emotionalroller...
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Juliette...I can feel your

Jun 7 - 5PM (Reply to #35)
ItsFinallytime
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Forgiveness is NOT about

Jun 7 - 1PM
Dragonlady
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Not me, i thought

Jun 1 - 4PM
mystwoman
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Xnh actually had me convinced

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God sometimes removes a person from your life for your protection. Don't run after them.

Jun 7 - 12AM (Reply to #29)
Better Now
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I read books and articles on

Jun 1 - 10AM
Stace
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Mine called me a "nightmare"

Apr 28 - 3AM
hope29
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I also wrote down all the

Apr 27 - 11PM
tootsgee
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How to recognise you are being manipulated

Apr 27 - 11PM
sick_of_being_s...
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He blamed me for his jealous

Apr 28 - 2PM (Reply to #20)
gemofagirl
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Wow...deja vui!I once went

Jun 1 - 10AM (Reply to #24)
Stace
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Sounds like he has MAJOR

Jun 1 - 12AM (Reply to #22)
Better Now
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This makes me laugh now, but

Jun 1 - 3PM (Reply to #23)
ItsFinallytime
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Different details, exact same

Apr 30 - 8PM (Reply to #21)
onwithmylife
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gemo

Apr 28 - 3AM (Reply to #19)
onwithmylife
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sickofbeings

Apr 27 - 4PM
onwithmylife
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when

Jun 8 - 11PM (Reply to #17)
Better Now
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The letters

Apr 27 - 4PM
Sickofhim
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I am so messed up in the head

Apr 27 - 11AM
hope29
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I would try and justify my

Apr 27 - 11AM
gemofagirl
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In the beginning, I would

Jun 8 - 11PM (Reply to #13)
Better Now
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I KNOW!

Apr 27 - 9AM
Alissa
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I feel like I'm bad... like

Apr 27 - 7AM
getting there
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I should have known better

Apr 27 - 7AM (Reply to #9)
Better Now
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I was always happy, upbeat

Jun 1 - 3PM (Reply to #10)
sunny1973
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I was happy too

Apr 27 - 6AM
tootsgee
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sometimes i think the blame