HIS rules

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#1 Feb 3 - 6AM
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HIS rules

So for 2 1/2 yrs I lived by HIS rules. Always had to be his way or no way. One day, before I went NC, I thought (mistakenly) that it would be funny to send him a list of his rules(since they were implied but never really spoken) & ask him which ones he's ready to break. Since we always joked around & teased each other, I thought he would laugh about the list. Oh, was I wrong. It pissed him off and he responded with "I will not engage u in this conversation, troublemaker!!". Here's the list:

10. Never text
9. Never call
8. Never communicate on weekends
7. Never communicate at night
6. Never communicate while on vacation
5. Never say "I love you"
4. Never spend more than 2 hrs together
3. Never see each other on any consistent basis
2. Never go out in public, except in beginning when u are trying to "woo"
1. Never ever act like u care if the relationship is in danger or ending or has ended.

This is the craziness I experienced for way too long.

Feb 3 - 5PM
Deidre99
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you know, i read through this

Feb 3 - 5PM (Reply to #49)
Sickofhim
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((Deidre))

Feb 3 - 4PM
onwithmylife
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sickofhim

Feb 3 - 9PM (Reply to #47)
Sickofhim
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OWML

Feb 3 - 3PM
destiny (not verified)
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My rules were very similar too

Feb 3 - 4PM (Reply to #40)
Deidre99
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i can relate to the 'not

Feb 4 - 4AM (Reply to #44)
Alissa
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Yes, my N ALWAYS wanted to be

Feb 4 - 5AM (Reply to #45)
Sickofhim
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Not surprising. EVERYTHING

Feb 3 - 5PM (Reply to #41)
destiny (not verified)
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Diedre my first Narc was a

Feb 3 - 6PM (Reply to #42)
Deidre99
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we might have dated the same

Feb 3 - 6PM (Reply to #43)
Sickofhim
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Sounds like a typical N

Feb 3 - 3PM (Reply to #37)
Deidre99
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''have to let him go when he

Feb 3 - 4PM (Reply to #39)
destiny (not verified)
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Diedre- im glad youre

Feb 3 - 3PM (Reply to #38)
Sickofhim
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This is the exact reason why

Feb 3 - 3PM (Reply to #36)
Sickofhim
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They are truly all about

Feb 3 - 1PM
Deidre99
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and here's YOUR new rule... *

Feb 3 - 2PM (Reply to #34)
Sickofhim
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Deidre

Feb 3 - 12PM
brinamarie
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Sadly, my ex N was not

Feb 3 - 2PM (Reply to #31)
Sickofhim
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Brinamarie

Feb 3 - 8PM (Reply to #32)
brinamarie
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Xoxo

Feb 3 - 10AM
Alissa
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The rules that my N had for

Feb 3 - 1PM (Reply to #29)
Deidre99
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not sure which is more

Feb 3 - 1PM (Reply to #18)
Deidre99
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just a question...some of you

Feb 3 - 4PM (Reply to #28)
destiny (not verified)
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the dont text me

Feb 3 - 2PM (Reply to #27)
Sickofhim
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He only wanted to communIcate

Feb 3 - 2PM (Reply to #19)
Alissa
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No, first he ignored texts

Feb 3 - 2PM (Reply to #21)
Deidre99
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oh, ok...i see. lol they're

Feb 3 - 2PM (Reply to #22)
Sickofhim
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Lol

Feb 3 - 3PM (Reply to #23)
Deidre99
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anyone who would utter such

Feb 3 - 3PM (Reply to #24)
Sickofhim
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Mommy issues