The Most Hurtful One-liner N Blurted Out - What Was Yours?

During the D&D "You don't want me to be happy, you're going to make sure I have nobody new" (this after discovering his lies about his next target that I found out about and confronted. "You're a fucking bitch!" "It's always all about you, isn't it?" "Even if I wanted someone else, you're going to make sure I don't have it". "You're flabby" "Why do you always do that?" "You're way too sensitive to shit" "Well maybe if you'd stop bitching me out we could have a relationship" "I'm tired of your constant assumptions" "false accusations/assuming again " (this was his favorite of all) "Why do you always think the worst of me? You call me a liar and then you find out I'm telling the truth!" WTF?? "You always make me out to be some terrible person"

3 weeks before I moved in with him: You can move into my house, because I don`t want to see you on the street, but we are not together anymore. Around 2 months later, in front of my son and his girlfriend: Can`t you talk your old landlord into taking you back or something? Before going off on a three-week business trip: I`m not interested in talking to you, I`m not interested in living with you, in fact I`m not interested in you, period. There was plenty more, I think I`ve suppressed a lot of painful memories.

You're wierd/creepy Always said when i'd just poured my heart out during moments of D&D - it cut like a knife that he hadn't realised the desperation in my pleading not to leave me. However when re-hoovering if he acted/said the same things it wasn't wierd or creepy it was acceptable!! Another one was an old post i saw on FB the other day from this time 1 year ago. Mt status read 'JMi has no money, no job and no idea whats gonna happen in life but is the happiest i've ever been' N commented 'what are you so happy about??' as if he was jealous I commented 'i'm marrying you in December!!' He never re-commented - he was obviously feeling the same.....NOT!!!! Typical behaviour!

"YOU COULD HAVE MADE ME HAPPY" this after years of being with him! Love the way every time he D&Dd me he would hug me and say he was sorry! And you could tell he had been crying his eyes were swelled up and blood shot!

That was the absolute clincher. After years and years of trying to help him, understand him, even go to therapy sessions on his behalf, be there for him in times of family troubles etc, help him with work place accusations of bullying (with the OW - unbeknown to me at the time), dramas with his N mother, problems with his numerous ongoing workplace dramas, his neurosis and his general lack of consideration for me. Felt it was time to take a bow at this last, and final comment. Enough was enough, get on with it fella, this train had definitely left the station for the last time and going somewhere more appreciative and better for my health. Dee x

After both of us consulted with a divorce attorney for me, and I found an apartment. "you thought we were in a relationship" "We're just friends" Hunter

"You're a bitch!" "You were a terrible home maker." "You don't know what a man needs." "You don't know how to treat a man." "You're a terrible cook." This all after 20 years together and 5 children. This is so very painful for me. I cooked and cleaned for years. I homeschooled and took care of EVERYTHING, but not myself. Because if I was taking care of me I would have left that f-ing loser a long time ago.

After I had been beat down, disabled and depressed. "Look at you, who would want to have sex with you"

There's one that stands out in my mind, too. After calling me his wife, and spouse, and talking about getting married, in the early months... someone posted on good ol' fb about the 12 days of Christmas song. He said "Well, I'm sure not thinking about any golden rings..I'm Sure you understand" in that smarmy way of his..little smirk on his face and all. This was before the D&D, but after he'd starting working up to it. I remember my heart sinking even lower, the feeling of being kicked in the gut.. Asses.. all of them!!!

"I didn't need you...." Which, on the surface, may not seem so bad. But looking back, I believe this was hurled at me specifically because I sincerely needed to be appreciated and validated as a person. And he knew how much it would hurt me. (And it simply wasn't true...)

We aren't "together", we are just "friends"

"You think too much"