Girlfriend contacted me

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Dec 30 - 10AM (Reply to #14)
quietude (not verified)
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LMAO!

What a difference a day makes, eh? YES, please stop LURING him in mallory! ROTFLMAO!!!
Dec 30 - 10AM (Reply to #15)
Ellen
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Hang on

Yes hang on let me get this straight, The exN gf emailed you to say she was leaving him then she text you to say she was staying then she emailed you to say you must leave him alone and stop luring him etc. You didn't reply to any of this? What are they doing. I think no visitation will definately be best.
Dec 30 - 11AM (Reply to #16)
malloryforest
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Ellen

You got it straight. STBXNH just sent text telling me that I have to ignore her emails. He wants her out of the house. SHe wants to stay in the relationship. She is sending me emails to get a rise out of me.
Dec 30 - 3PM (Reply to #20)
Barbara (not verified)
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chickenf*cker... the hottest man on the planet! LOL

and HE IS LYING TO HER ABOUT YOU to make her stay he wants her to think this is still a competition he can't imagine he's not the most desireable man on earth... how delusional - he's UGLY! ~~~~~~~~~ The truth will set you free... but first it will piss you off - Gloria Steinem Visit My Abuse Website
Dec 30 - 12PM (Reply to #19)
quietude (not verified)
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mallory

As hard as it is to look away from the train wreck, try not to read them. This has nothing productive to do with the kids. But it's really, really good evidence for your lawyer. I would let her know they are involving your in their PERSONAL DRAMA, that is none of your business, and their continued HARASSMENT is bothering you emotionally and triggering your PTSD. If he is D&D'ing her...you know, that is very horrible for her, and I hope she gets the hell out. But really, the priority is that you take care of yourself...
Dec 30 - 11AM (Reply to #17)
Ellen
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Is she being D&D now

Oh dear is she being devalued now. I don't envy her then. Not nice eeeeeuuuuuk don't remind me. I'm staying single forever now after that. So will you be tempted or should i say lured back in by him if he does get her to leave?
Dec 30 - 11AM (Reply to #18)
malloryforest
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Ellen

No. I am not taking him back. In fact, I just sent a note to my lawyer, gf and STBX that I will not ake him back. I want the divorce. He needs to sighn the papers by the end of the week. They are both very mentally ill, and I need to get the kids and I legally away from them as soon as I can.
Dec 29 - 9PM
Carolyn
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She might be looking for

She might be looking for help as she is now a victim but that is not your role in life. He will hurt all of the women he is involved with but you can't help them.
Dec 29 - 10PM (Reply to #11)
malloryforest
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It is all b.s

Honestly, I think it is all b.s. I can make a bet right now that the girlfriend has no intentions of moving out of the house. I am very glad that I have listened to all of you. I am staying out of it completely. We all know he is up to something, and either she is involved in it or not. Only time will tell. Keeping my mind on the divorce papers getting signed. I will leave the other stuff between them. Not my problem anyway. My gut is telling me that they are both in on it together.
Dec 29 - 6PM
Barbara (not verified)
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ROFLMAO

typical pathological - he TIPPED HIS HAND! http://www.lisaescott.com/forum/2009/04/24/how-tell-what-narcissist how OBVIOUS that she'd contact you just a few days after he "begged" you not to speak to her. Don't talk to her until its all over. My next prediction: He's on EVERY Match.com dating site he can log into... any takers? ~~~~~~~~~ The truth will set you free... but first it will piss you off - Gloria Steinem Visit My Abuse Website
Dec 29 - 6PM (Reply to #3)
malloryforest
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Barbara

I will not respond to her. Please explain to me how he ha "tipped his hand?" Also how is this a wolf in sheep's clothing. Please elaborate.
Dec 29 - 7PM (Reply to #4)
Barbara (not verified)
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mallory

READ THAT ARTICLE How to Know What a Narcissist is Doing... the fact he said "don't speak to my gfriend; respect my privacy" TRANSLATES to: "the gfriend is catching on to my lies. if you 2 talk I won't be able to reel her back in. So I will appeal to your compassion via the kids... yeahhhhh that's the ticket" He's acting all nice and believes he's a good dad with all those stooopid gifts? being "polite" asking you to 'respect his privacy' acting 'so hurt and confused' = SHEEP'S CLOTHING but not signing papers, lying about you to g'friend and vice versa, trying to play on both of your compassion... that's THE WOLF... http://personalitydisorders.suite101.com/article.cfm/how_psychopaths_exploit_others http://www.nowpublic.com/world/great-article-tools-sociopath http://ezinearticles.com/?The-Sociopathic-Spouse---9-Signs-Your-Husband-Or-Wife-May-Be-a-Sociopath&id=1863927 SOCIOPATH SOCIOPATH SOCIOPATH is that clear enough for you? ~~~~~~~~~ The truth will set you free... but first it will piss you off - Gloria Steinem Visit My Abuse Website
Dec 29 - 7PM (Reply to #5)
malloryforest
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I love you Barbara

I love you Barbara. Sociopath Sociopath Sociopath Wonder how long it will take for gf to find this site. If she is genuine and out of there, this is the place she needs to go.
Dec 29 - 7PM (Reply to #6)
Barbara (not verified)
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mallory

once everything's done... send her here. ~~~~~~~~~ The truth will set you free... but first it will piss you off - Gloria Steinem Visit My Abuse Website
Dec 29 - 7PM (Reply to #8)
malloryforest
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Funny thing

Funny thing...I don't hate her. I don't like what she participated in, but I really don't hate her. I hope this is not another scam between the two of them. I hope she is truly seeing the light, and is taking care of herself and her daughters. I will stay out of it until I know they are truly over. Good advice from all of you.
Dec 31 - 10AM (Reply to #9)
ForeverLearning
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Oh God She Has Daughters Living There With Him

That scares me big time. It seems at this point there may be no telling what weirdness / dysfunction he is capable of doing at the moment. You said he put the Christmas gift down his pants to be fetched out by one of the kids, that is a real bad sign right there, along with the strange (and cheap) Christmas gifts of rubber roaches and gooey slime and farting dogs, and the chicken sex thing is extrememly disturbing on top of that. I am going to pray for the safety of her daughters and that they get away from him soon too.
Dec 29 - 7PM (Reply to #7)
MsVulcan500
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But make sure she is really

But make sure she is really gone first. This could still be a trick to get you to react, or you could end up getting caught up in a lot of drama you just don't need in your life. Remember, it's all about you now!
Dec 29 - 6PM (Reply to #2)
quietude (not verified)
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mallory

If it's even legit, not your problem or concern so please keep ignoring. Be careful, I've had certain so & so's e-mail me posing as others. Also, if it's real, you may be in for an Oscar-nomination worthy begging fest! Oh, if he goes on Match.com, I would pay money to see that profile..LOL