I'm a mess...

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BrokenBlonde
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I'm a mess...

My ExN called me Wednesday night and we talked for four hours. Then he saw me on Thursday, but when home sick and was out of work Friday. Tonight I got an email from the OW saying that he's in bad shape and not doing well. She said whatever we talked about tripped emotions in him from his childhood, his wife who died of cancer...etc. Now he's falling apart and she's just trying to fix him. She also said he told her he had been wanting to break up with me for a long time before he cheated on me with her. I tried to tell her he was a narc and she just said , no he isn't. Now I feel foolish, maybe he isn't. and she is there to help him and be the good guy. and I'm the one that caused him to break down.

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Deidre99
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Hey BB. I just wanted to see
BrokenBlonde
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Deidre, thanks for checking
Kyra_blue
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BB, how do you actually know
Bella10
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Thank you, this is excellent
BrokenBlonde
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Krya, thanks. Right now I do
Kyra_blue
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But you didn't cause him to
BrokenBlonde
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Kyra, it's so hard right now.
bgirl
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BB I'm sorry for your
Bella10
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How do you get to this
BrokenBlonde
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B, thanks. I am having a hard
bgirl
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Hi BB They will tell partial
BrokenBlonde
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B, you raise a good point --
bgirl
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BB I was in the exact same
bgirl
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BB I was in the exact same
BrokenBlonde
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Thanks B, I know my future
BrokenBlonde
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I feel so confused right now.
sweetpeasarah
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C'mon BB
jaime17
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I can't say much more than
Alissa
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(((( BB )))) Let her have
no more an echo
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way too much drama
BrokenBlonde
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Thanks Echo- I am joining the
Journey
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Kyra-blue makes a VERY GOOD

Journey on...

Deidre99
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holy cow!!!! that is an
BrokenBlonde
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I know it's her because I
Deidre99
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I can't imagine being this
BrokenBlonde
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yeah, interesting. I don't
Journey
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HIS WHOLE HISTORY AND

Journey on...

BrokenBlonde
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You're right, I need to stop
Bella10
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You are hoping as I have been