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I'm a mess...

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#1 Apr 22 - 6PM
BrokenBlonde
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I'm a mess...

My ExN called me Wednesday night and we talked for four hours. Then he saw me on Thursday, but when home sick and was out of work Friday. Tonight I got an email from the OW saying that he's in bad shape and not doing well. She said whatever we talked about tripped emotions in him from his childhood, his wife who died of cancer...etc. Now he's falling apart and she's just trying to fix him. She also said he told her he had been wanting to break up with me for a long time before he cheated on me with her. I tried to tell her he was a narc and she just said , no he isn't. Now I feel foolish, maybe he isn't. and she is there to help him and be the good guy. and I'm the one that caused him to break down.

Apr 24 - 12PM
midnight7
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97 responses to this post.

Apr 24 - 8AM
Deidre99
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Hey BB. I just wanted to see

Apr 24 - 11AM (Reply to #97)
BrokenBlonde
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Deidre, thanks for checking

Apr 23 - 11AM
Kyra_blue
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BB, how do you actually know

Apr 24 - 5AM (Reply to #95)
Bella10
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Thank you, this is excellent

Apr 23 - 1PM (Reply to #82)
BrokenBlonde
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Krya, thanks. Right now I do

Apr 23 - 2PM (Reply to #83)
Kyra_blue
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But you didn't cause him to

Apr 23 - 5PM (Reply to #84)
BrokenBlonde
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Kyra, it's so hard right now.

Apr 23 - 7PM (Reply to #85)
bgirl
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BB I'm sorry for your

Apr 24 - 5AM (Reply to #94)
Bella10
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How do you get to this

Apr 23 - 7PM (Reply to #86)
BrokenBlonde
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B, thanks. I am having a hard

Apr 23 - 8PM (Reply to #87)
bgirl
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Hi BB They will tell partial

Apr 23 - 9PM (Reply to #88)
BrokenBlonde
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B, you raise a good point --

Apr 23 - 9PM (Reply to #93)
bgirl
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BB I was in the exact same

Apr 23 - 9PM (Reply to #89)
bgirl
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BB I was in the exact same

Apr 23 - 10PM (Reply to #90)
BrokenBlonde
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Thanks B, I know my future

Apr 23 - 10PM (Reply to #91)
BrokenBlonde
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I feel so confused right now.

Apr 24 - 1AM (Reply to #92)
sweetpeasarah
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C'mon BB

Apr 23 - 10AM
jaime17
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I can't say much more than

Apr 23 - 6AM
Alissa
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(((( BB )))) Let her have

Apr 23 - 6AM
no more an echo
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way too much drama

Apr 23 - 9AM (Reply to #68)
BrokenBlonde
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Thanks Echo- I am joining the

Apr 23 - 12PM (Reply to #71)
Journey
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Kyra-blue makes a VERY GOOD

Journey on...

Apr 23 - 12PM (Reply to #72)
Deidre99
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holy cow!!!! that is an

Apr 23 - 12PM (Reply to #73)
BrokenBlonde
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I know it's her because I

Apr 23 - 12PM (Reply to #74)
Deidre99
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I can't imagine being this

Apr 23 - 1PM (Reply to #75)
BrokenBlonde
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yeah, interesting. I don't

Apr 23 - 1PM (Reply to #76)
Journey
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HIS WHOLE HISTORY AND

Journey on...

Apr 23 - 1PM (Reply to #77)
BrokenBlonde
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You're right, I need to stop

Apr 24 - 5AM (Reply to #78)
Bella10
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You are hoping as I have been