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Apr 21 - 6PM (Reply to #25)
Hunter
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Sara Smile

Yes and then we'll have a nice dinner with his credit card.
Apr 21 - 6PM (Reply to #26)
Happy1
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Does he have one? 8-)

Does he have one? 8-) Mommmy!!!!
Apr 21 - 6PM (Reply to #28)
Hunter
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Happy1

That was good!
Apr 21 - 6PM (Reply to #27)
sara-smile
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Happy

Baaaaaaaaa haaaaaaaaaaaa! That is hilarious!
Apr 21 - 6PM (Reply to #17)
Happy1
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Hunter / Sara Smile

We can all take the munchkin on!!
Apr 21 - 6PM (Reply to #18)
sara-smile
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Wooo hoooooo!

Let's go to NYC! The gnome/munchkin won't know what the hell hit him! HA!
Apr 21 - 6PM (Reply to #19)
Hunter
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But His Dog will attack us or

But His Dog will attack us or worse his mother. I did get my final word in. I told him to go fuck his dog and his mother. TEEHEE Sad thing is it goes on one are and out the other.
Apr 21 - 6PM (Reply to #20)
Happy1
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Hunter (hunt the narc)

You did get your closure though. You should feel good about that. You said exactly what you wanted to say. You will feel better.
Apr 21 - 7PM (Reply to #21)
Hunter
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Closure

I guess I did. Honestly I closed that door a long time ago. He is a text book Narc. He is dead, a vampire. The conversation just validated what he is and it makes me sad. He really did love me long ago. Of that Im 100% positive. His mother groomed him into this monster. He is just protecting himself from his evil existence. She tore us apart. I was all he had back then. He couldn't count on the one person he needed And that was her. His dad died at 38 years old in a plane crash and he need his mom to love him not abuse him. He did have moments of life in our conversation, I know he did. I wish this was all a dream and I was with him happily ever after but life isn't always prefect. I am making the best of what I have. I have a lot more than most and I need to love and embrace that. And no tiiddles I am no Bully, You need to check yourself, I Help people that have less than me every day. I will not even get into that, because by bragging it cheapen the deed. Happy knows me well. All I did all we did was love someone who couldn't love back. Tomorrow is another day.Today is not ideal. Hunter, I will find you :)
Apr 21 - 8PM (Reply to #24)
Happy1
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Closure for hunter

You did get closure sweetie! It's more than a lot get an opportunity to do. You grabbed him by the balls and told him howbypu felt and what he was. Give yourself credit for your honesty! You're way to good for this man. He isnt anywhere near what you deserve. I can't even picture you together. You're a strong, beautiful, smart, witty, generous and fun. And what is he? None of the above. The guy from years past is dead. You now have a short, rude balding dog trainer of a narc that won't ever ever be the man of your dreams. He just won't. Sorry! Hugs!!!!!
Apr 21 - 7PM (Reply to #22)
Veronrose
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Hunter wrote: "He really did

Hunter wrote: "He really did love me long ago. Of that Im 100% positive". Hunter, so are you saying that narcs CAN and really DO love??? Hunter wrote: All I did all we did was love someone who couldn't love back. OMG woman, you are confusing me!!!!
Apr 21 - 7PM (Reply to #23)
Hunter
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I new him when I was 19 years

I new him when I was 19 years old. He seemed normal. He mother was crazy stalked us because we go too close. We had to break p when I was 21 because she wouldn't stop. He/We tried to fight her but it got too big for both of us. She tortured him for many years, he had to finish out college living at a friends house. She stalked me till the day I left Upstate Ny and moved to LA with my husband. I truly think he was normal back then. I think years of her crazy caused his crazy. His bother doesn't speak to either of them because he is normal. Its just one big Fucked up mess. And Yes all we did was love them.
Apr 21 - 5PM (Reply to #3)
Tiddles
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Get a grip girl!

Content deleted by Lisa E. Scott. I looked into this user's e-mail address and it does not look valid. Instead of being a name, it's a bunch of letters. I think someone just created it to mess with us. Sorry everyone for approving this member. I have blocked them now. Hunter - Happy is right: "The guy from years past is dead. You now have a short, rude balding dog trainer of a narc that won't ever ever be the man of your dreams." You are way too good for this man! I'm so sorry I couldn't get on the site sooner to stop this. xoxo
Apr 21 - 6PM (Reply to #8)
Veronrose
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Tiddles, I understand where

Tiddles, I understand where you're coming from, I really do, but please listen. Everyone here has their own style of trying to help, lend an ear, and offer advice. Hunter has her way, she calls a spade a spade. Others have a more *maternal* (for lack of a better word) way, and they coddle. I don't know any of these women on here personally, so what I do is take what suits me and I leave the rest. It's only my experience, but I haven't run across anyone on here that MEANS to be hurtful. There are all different personalities on this board where feelings are raw to begin with. Personally, for me, there are times I NEED a WAKE UP call, like Hunter has to offer, and there are other times I need a warm cyber hug like Michelle offers. I am not a bully, I don't agree with bullying, I'm not afraid of Hunter and I'm not afraid to speak my mind. Without knowing hunter personally however, I get the impression that she is a strong woman, who has a very matter-of-fact way of dealing with things. And, unless I'm wrong, had your post not been so sarcastic, she would've APPRECIATED you being tough and what you had to say. If I'm not mistaken, had you said, "C'mon hunter, NC NC NC, You know better!! You always say to get a clue!!! C'mon, listen to your own words!! Get strong girl!!!" or something to that affect, I believe hunter would've thought "By Jeeze, she's RIGHT". Echoing someones words back to them, in a forum like this, would be so much more helpful than trying to make them eat them. That's just my opinion. ((hugs)) to all, tiddles and hunter, and everyone here. Veronrose
Apr 21 - 6PM (Reply to #9)
Happy1
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Veronrose

I totally and completely agree with you! You articulated it perfectly. I couldn't get it out and I thank you for this. (Hugs)
Apr 21 - 7PM (Reply to #14)
Veronrose
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Happy

And btw Happy, I LOVE your new avatar. Betty Boop "It's All About ME" Ha! LOVE IT!!!
Apr 21 - 7PM (Reply to #15)
Happy1
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Veronrose

Thanks! I think we all need to make it about 'us' now. None of us have done that for a long time! I know it's been years for me and I'm doing things that I want to do for the first time in a very long time. It's in no way selfish because really I make it about my son and I, but I do not have any room for any man right now. So, therefore "it's all about me". 8-) Boo Boo Bee Doop!!
Apr 21 - 6PM (Reply to #10)
Veronrose
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Thanks Happy!!! I just hate

Thanks Happy!!! I just hate all this consternation and had to say what was on my mind. I hope you are doing well. I haven't seen you post much. I was thinking, hmmm, that must mean Happy is happy!! ((hugs)) to you too. Veronrose
Apr 21 - 6PM (Reply to #11)
Happy1
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Veronrose

Thank you!! Unfortunately, my narc has been stalking me on facebook and I'm not sure what else. I have him blocked and yet he knows everything on there. I just haven't had the heart to post anything because I feel it's giving energy to him right now. I'm sure I will though. Thanks!!!
Apr 21 - 7PM (Reply to #12)
Veronrose
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YES, post soon and let us

YES, post soon and let us know how everything is going!! I haven't posted my story yet, as, to be honest, I still can't cognitively piece together what happened. I still sometimes feel like everything is a complete blur. I can't make sense of it and putting it in writing is hard because it's so confusing to me still. I will work on that soon, because I know, putting it out there and getting others' take on it, will be so healing. Have a great night Happy!!!
Apr 21 - 8PM (Reply to #13)
Happy1
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I will post soon as you guys

I will post soon as you guys have been a huge help for my recovery. It's just weird that sometimes I clam up about things and stuff the pain. It really is better to get it out I know. I hope you feel comfortable sharing your story someday as well. It's all part of letting it go I guess. You have a good night too! Happy
Apr 21 - 6PM (Reply to #7)
Happy1
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Tiddles

Sounds like you have a lot of pent up anger. Bullying is bad thing and so is ripping someone when they're down. So if you feel it's wrong, then why are you doing it yourself? This is a forum for everyone to be helpful when we are going through all these different stages. It's unnecessary and uncalled for behavior. We need to take our anger out on the one's that put us here. The narcs are horrible beings that have ripped our soul. I hope you are no contact, but I also know it's a very hard long road. Please no more rude picking. Happy
Apr 21 - 6PM (Reply to #6)
sara-smile
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Is that really necessary???

Seriously? Have you just been sitting back waiting on something to happen so you could kick her when she was down? I'm not taking up for a bully by the way!! I'm taking up for a FRIEND who has saved me numerous times in my HELL!!!! You may not like her style but this is ridiculous! Why don't you just leave Hunter alone?? We are NOT here to attack each other! We've been through this a million times! If you don't like her advice then IGNORE IT!!!!!!!!! Jesus! How cold hearted can you be?
Apr 21 - 5PM (Reply to #4)
Hunter
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Tiddles

Im in a tornado and I cant stop it at the moment. Im not afarid to admit the truth. I think I will leave your post here for others to respond to because its very unnecessary > Thanks for the help. BTW 10 Bucks you go round robin with your Narc more than once. Just a stupid hunch! Maybe your silent because of your ignorance ? Hunter
Apr 21 - 6PM (Reply to #5)
Redhead1
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Wow, am I reading this right?

Wow, am I reading this right? Tiddles is Ideals Narc? This is Ideals territory, so you Tiddles needs to go. He is not welcome.