BY Guest Blogger Prettypeeved:
This is how it worked for me, until I'd had enough:
1. Narc is all nice and friendly. We get on well, we have some fun, we (apparently) bond.
2. Facts about Narc start to look suspiciously exaggerated or outright fiction. Bond looks suspiciously one-sided.
3. Narc starts playing mind games and evading attempts to determine the truth.
4. I get increasingly angry.
5. A point is reached where I begin to think of abandoning the Narc and moving on.
6. Narc seems to sense this, and D&Ds.
7. I am "put on the naughty step" and "given a time out" for about 3 months, until I learn to "behave".
8. It hurts to be abandoned and rejected, so when he returns, he is forgiven for his behaviour, and I try to forget it and move on.
9. Go to step 1.
I'm glad to be rid of this crap.
he used to say "when you are more reasonable, i will talk to you
# 5
Just remembered something...
Insightful
AMEN!
Exactly!!
Exactly!
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