Working the Steps?

My narc is 18, only ten months younger than I. His mother claims that he and his sister, are both ADD. Something that his dad also has. She is also very enabling. She's that mother that loves her kids so much, especially her son, that she practically does everything for him. She gives him money, prepares all his food, EVERYTHING pretty much. My question is, do narcs progress over time? Meaning, do they get worse with age, or could it be possible that he has reached his full potential already?

Hi. My N Husband has been (for the last 6-8 months or so) acting almost polar opposite to how he "normally" acts toward me. Usually he was all in my face about anything, where I went, what I did, etc. For the past half year or so, it's been changing and I think that he (as yet) doesn't realize I am on to this different behavior. Now, it's as if he could care less about anything I do. However, his sensitivity is now on overdrive and anything I say/do sets him off to the extreme. I recently found out that he has another mailing address.

Fortunately, my ex ( we are still to through a divorce ) left when our daughter was only 5 weeks old. Since then, I have gone to his house, he as come to mine or we have met in public. Last year, he has 3 unsupervised visits with our daughter who was 2 at the time. Soon thereafter, she started having night terrors, holding her poop for days, did not want to be changed, said "I scared O daddy, when he came to visit etc.

I do have a question, there is something I just need to know. Once I was at the N's house and I adjusted the resolution on his computer without his permission. I was in another room when he yelled out my name. When I walked into the room where he was I could see that he was very upset...he looked at me and said "fix the damn computer." As I reached around him to get the mouse, he looked at me as if I had broken the thing and said "why did you change it." I said nothing but instead with two clicks of the mouse I changed the resolution back.